I can't believe people aren't focused on the fact that her husband touched THEIR children… She did a wonderful job to keep her composure enough to get her kids to safety and not offing that monster
Chileeee he didnt want her he wanted them lil girls smh yall keep thinking these men with money is the way to go. The more money they have the more they believe they can do w/e n above the law
The dark side of men is nothing new & naïve women are blind that all men have a dark side…whether women see it or not…it’s there , & being aware of male dark sides will help women to better move around them…for real. Men are natural competitors & many are hidden barbarians behind closed doors. Again, this is nothing new; move respectfully, be aware, learn how to protect yourselves & your kids. & for Goodness sake, stop centering men. Why is centering men still a thing in 2024 for women. Stop this
Harsh truth is that there are females who would trade their kids for a pair of red bottoms, hell some women would risk their kids to have any man, rich or poor. It’s time they be held accountable. You can’t have an open honest conversation without acknowledging that fact. Just ask the child victims of SA who told stories of their mom’s boyfriend/ husband had been touching them and the mom either blames the kid or chooses to ignore their kid’s allegations. Those women don’t deserve grace, empathy or understanding, the victims of S-abuse deserve empathy and support. I don’t know who this woman is or if that was the case in this situation, but if you bring a man around your kids without properly vetting him, his background then you do share blame if something were to happen to those kids.
Pump your brakes take some space. If they're still there after you take a break, then it's real. If they don't and they're on to the next person. Then you know. That's exactly how narcissists work and there's a reason why someone wants to meet your kids right off the bat and it's not because he wants to see and meet your kids!!! Oh no he's means testing you sweetie. If want to be a trophy wife. I was raised basically be a trophy wife. I came from beautiful Southern California Orange County where they still act like it's the 1950s. 😂 That man I married was on the down low and he was in accounting. So he needed a little trophy wife. So grateful I got out when I did. Ladies some of you are going to build your whole world around these men. When you wake up from the spell they have you under. I hope you all have some resources to get away. They're not easy to get away from. That's when the money comes into play. So be careful what you wish for ladies. I always say it's so much better to make your own money & spend it how you see fit. Then to sit there and have to literally lick someone's toes to get $2! That's the ugly side that none of these women want to talk about the men control them with their money. My situation my ex. He had custom clothes, custom shoes the nicer car. I may have been a trophy wife but I wasn't treated like a trophy.!! I was always treated like an afterthought. A trophy is a possession. Do you really want to be someone's possession? Or would you like to be cherished, loved, honored and cared for? Huge difference there in terms of experience.
My grandmother gave me the best advice I ever got in my life on my first wedding day. As she slipped $100 bill into the palm of my hand. She whispered to me in my ear, always make sure you have your own money!! That they know nothing about. My grandmother's mother died of tuberculosis when she was 16. Her stepfather decided that she was his favorite long before her mother died unfortunately. He plan a horrible plan. My Gma went to school that day and confided in a teacher! Her father had a plan to move them all to New York including her too half sisters. This evil man was then going to have my grandmother their older half sister raise them as her own!! After he married her!! Thank God my grandmother said something. She was able to get emancipated from him in the late 1800s! Her mother left her a $1,000 inheritance. The attorney my Grandmother hired not only took the whole entire $1,000! Huge sum of money for that time period He also had the audacity to charge her an additional $100 that she paid him for her freedom !! So my grandmother bought her freedom at a time when most women couldn't even get a divorce from their husbands. Unless you were beat or he was such a drunkard that he spent most of his time in a psychiatric unit being dried out. The vast majority of women didn't leave their husbands. While they were getting the you know what kicked out of them every night because they couldn't open up a bank account. They couldn't rent a place. They had no money. If you don't have options you don't get to leave. So learn from my grandmother's history!!! She was happily married to my grandfather for over 53 years. My grandfather cherished her. She always had her own money on the side so if my grandfather decided one day to pop off. She could get out and leave. ❤
SEVERAL valuable lessons can be learned from this scenario:
(1) Failing to properly vet ANY man irrespective of age, status or physical appearance is a HUGE HELL NO.
(2) #1 is even more emphasized when there's small children involved (and I say this as a childless woman). Single mothers CANNOT afford to be hasty and desperate. It isn't all about you anymore.
(3) Idolizing men, marriage, money and materialism will ensnare you EVERY SINGLE TIME.
(4) Prioritizing all of the above in #3 over CHARACTER is a potentially lethal cocktail. She's blessed this monster didn't do worst.
(5) Believing that the magic "formula" for attracting a high value man (as opposed to a high virtue man) is pretty+puss+feminine energy is a FATAL mistake a lot of broken, misguided BW are utilizing at their own expense.
(6) Anytime you enter into a relationship that has an imbalanced power dynamic and all you bring to the table is your looks, sexual availability and some other man's kids, you were doomed from the start.
WOMEN EVERYWHERE take heed. Praying for her and the kids healing, but next time she needs to be more considerate of her kids and cognizant of the motive behind her decisions.
That same thing happened to my son with his own father. His father was very abusive. I loved him and got a restraining order for me and my son they still made his father see him through a third-party while we had a restraining order later my son told me when he was five years old his father Was sexually molested him I am mediately, called the police and called CPS and not even a year later Cps came and removed my son from my home I won, but his father did not have to go to N Reno, Nevada. He would not admit it.
I am now suing CPS and please departments in two different states that did not keep my son safe from a predator please everybody stand up and save our children thank God after a long 2 1/2 year fight I won soul custody of my son, but still we are five years later, trying to put his father in jail for being a pedophile
My heart goes out to you and your children. Me and my son are praying for all of you It’s wrong for anyone to touch a child at all, but it angers me that my sons own father hurt him when he was supposed to protect him but that ok cuz GOD HAS US ! Thanks to strong mothers like us we will keep our children protected please people wake up if children’s on fathers can hurt them then anyone can keep your children safe!!!!! Love you Tisa we watch you everyday
Single mothers please stay single until your children are adults or at least 16
My parents divorced when I was 3, my mom remarried when I was 11. My mother new husband never touched me but his daughter did smh
His daughter SA me, we are the same age but she was SA from her older brother, she became a predator and deviant herself. It happened once… but I never confronted her afterwards
I was a sheltered spoiled only child and it ruined a lot of things in my life… I’m in my 40s and still have never told my mother.
Calling her a disciple of Kevin Samuels in an insult. She is young, her content is good, not harmful. She never bashed women. She is brave for even discussing what happened to her and her family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
taking extra caution don't mean that people are blaming her. Children are defenseless against adults and today we know more than our parents knew. Warning signs are often revealed in other women stories and our own abuse. We know it can be the neighbor, the teacher, the husband.
if a bank is robbed although the robber is a fault the bank looks into better ways to secure itself. we as mothers must do this. I wouldn't blame her, yet I would encourage all women to not be so trusting with ANY MAN: rich poor short, tall Christian or other. Don't be so trusting
something else came to mind; is it possible that although she said he didn't watch her videos that he actually did and decided to get revenge on her for discussing how she landed him. I don't mean this to say that he is a good person or wasn't an abuser before meeting her. Men don't like for anyone to get over on them and they can be vicious. she even stated that he assaulted her four time at the beginning, and he did other things that she overlooked. this would mean that in real time while she made earlier content, she had already experienced the monster in him. unfortunately, later her babies experienced the monster in him.
I also want to point out that background checks can be misleading. I know a man who literally threw his wife out of a second-floor window and left her in the backyard for the kids to discover, he went to jail (short time not even a year) he later kicked her in the face until it was disfigured. He had a life of crime, drug dealing, pimp and all. He met some good ole Yt men who helped him seal his criminal record. He legally obtained a firearm and had a security business. he abused women after and has the protection of the powerful men he owes favors to.
Lastly. money does not equal love and respect. providing is a part of loving and respect yet there must be other factors that shape a relationship.
Tisa, I watched your channel, but I noticed some of the details you shared were incorrect. She was giving her 4-year-old a bath when she told her mom what happened, and later at the hospital, she found out it also involved the 2-year-old. At no point did she say the boys were touched. Also, her sons are older—she had one at 17 and the other at 19. Just wanted to clarify!
Imagine saying, "That's what you get" over someone's CHILD being r*aped by their own father.
It’s happening every we’re….. no child deserves this ❤
I can't believe people aren't focused on the fact that her husband touched THEIR children… She did a wonderful job to keep her composure enough to get her kids to safety and not offing that monster
Chileeee he didnt want her he wanted them lil girls smh yall keep thinking these men with money is the way to go. The more money they have the more they believe they can do w/e n above the law
The dark side of men is nothing new & naïve women are blind that all men have a dark side…whether women see it or not…it’s there , & being aware of male dark sides will help women to better move around them…for real. Men are natural competitors & many are hidden barbarians behind closed doors. Again, this is nothing new; move respectfully, be aware, learn how to protect yourselves & your kids. & for Goodness sake, stop centering men. Why is centering men still a thing in 2024 for women. Stop this
Harsh truth is that there are females who would trade their kids for a pair of red bottoms, hell some women would risk their kids to have any man, rich or poor. It’s time they be held accountable. You can’t have an open honest conversation without acknowledging that fact. Just ask the child victims of SA who told stories of their mom’s boyfriend/ husband had been touching them and the mom either blames the kid or chooses to ignore their kid’s allegations. Those women don’t deserve grace, empathy or understanding, the victims of S-abuse deserve empathy and support. I don’t know who this woman is or if that was the case in this situation, but if you bring a man around your kids without properly vetting him, his background then you do share blame if something were to happen to those kids.
Pump your brakes take some space.
If they're still there after you take a break, then it's real. If they don't and they're on to the next person. Then you know.
That's exactly how narcissists work and there's a reason why someone wants to meet your kids right off the bat and it's not because he wants to see and meet your kids!!!
Oh no he's means testing you sweetie. If want to be a trophy wife.
I was raised basically be a trophy wife.
I came from beautiful Southern California Orange County where they still act like it's the 1950s. 😂
That man I married was on the down low and he was in accounting. So he needed a little trophy wife.
So grateful I got out when I did. Ladies some of you are going to build your whole world around these men.
When you wake up from the spell they have you under. I hope you all have some resources to get away. They're not easy to get away from.
That's when the money comes into play. So be careful what you wish for ladies.
I always say it's so much better to make your own money & spend it how you see fit.
Then to sit there and have to literally lick someone's toes to get $2! That's the ugly side that none of these women want to talk about the men control them with their money. My situation my ex. He had custom clothes, custom shoes the nicer car. I may have been a trophy wife but I wasn't treated like a trophy.!!
I was always treated like an afterthought.
A trophy is a possession.
Do you really want to be someone's possession?
Or would you like to be cherished, loved, honored and cared for? Huge difference there in terms of experience.
Girl that man married her to get her daughter!
My grandmother gave me the best advice I ever got in my life on my first wedding day. As she slipped $100 bill into the palm of my hand. She whispered to me in my ear, always make sure you have your own money!! That they know nothing about.
My grandmother's mother died of tuberculosis when she was 16. Her stepfather decided that she was his favorite long before her mother died unfortunately.
He plan a horrible plan. My Gma went to school that day and confided in a teacher!
Her father had a plan to move them all to New York including her too half sisters.
This evil man was then going to have my grandmother their older half sister raise them as her own!!
After he married her!! Thank God my grandmother said something.
She was able to get emancipated from him in the late 1800s!
Her mother left her a $1,000 inheritance.
The attorney my Grandmother hired not only took the whole entire $1,000! Huge sum of money for that time period
He also had the audacity to charge her an additional $100 that she paid him for her freedom !!
So my grandmother bought her freedom at a time when most women couldn't even get a divorce from their husbands.
Unless you were beat or he was such a drunkard that he spent most of his time in a psychiatric unit being dried out.
The vast majority of women didn't leave their husbands. While they were getting the you know what kicked out of them every night because they couldn't open up a bank account. They couldn't rent a place. They had no money. If you don't have options you don't get to leave.
So learn from my grandmother's history!!! She was happily married to my grandfather for over 53 years. My grandfather cherished her.
She always had her own money on the side so if my grandfather decided one day to pop off. She could get out and leave. ❤
You have got to protect your children! Stay close to your child's School! Middle school children are having sex in the kids bathrooms. !!!
I’m going to need the lord to come back cause what is going on in this world.
SEVERAL valuable lessons can be learned from this scenario:
(1) Failing to properly vet ANY man irrespective of age, status or physical appearance is a HUGE HELL NO.
(2) #1 is even more emphasized when there's small children involved (and I say this as a childless woman). Single mothers CANNOT afford to be hasty and desperate. It isn't all about you anymore.
(3) Idolizing men, marriage, money and materialism will ensnare you EVERY SINGLE TIME.
(4) Prioritizing all of the above in #3 over CHARACTER is a potentially lethal cocktail. She's blessed this monster didn't do worst.
(5) Believing that the magic "formula" for attracting a high value man (as opposed to a high virtue man) is pretty+puss+feminine energy is a FATAL mistake a lot of broken, misguided BW are utilizing at their own expense.
(6) Anytime you enter into a relationship that has an imbalanced power dynamic and all you bring to the table is your looks, sexual availability and some other man's kids, you were doomed from the start.
WOMEN EVERYWHERE take heed. Praying for her and the kids healing, but next time she needs to be more considerate of her kids and cognizant of the motive behind her decisions.
She said he graped her and still moved forward…smh
That same thing happened to my son with his own father. His father was very abusive. I loved him and got a restraining order for me and my son they still made his father see him through a third-party while we had a restraining order later my son told me when he was five years old his father Was sexually molested him I am mediately, called the police and called CPS and not even a year later Cps came and removed my son from my home I won, but his father did not have to go to N Reno, Nevada. He would not admit it.
I am now suing CPS and please departments in two different states that did not keep my son safe from a predator please everybody stand up and save our children thank God after a long 2 1/2 year fight I won soul custody of my son, but still we are five years later, trying to put his father in jail for being a pedophile
Thank you for making a lot of sense. God bless you.
My heart goes out to you and your children. Me and my son are praying for all of you It’s wrong for anyone to touch a child at all, but it angers me that my sons own father hurt him when he was supposed to protect him but that ok cuz GOD HAS US ! Thanks to strong mothers like us we will keep our children protected please people wake up if children’s on fathers can hurt them then anyone can keep your children safe!!!!! Love you Tisa we watch you everyday
Is he in jail now?
Single mothers please stay single until your children are adults or at least 16
My parents divorced when I was 3, my mom remarried when I was 11. My mother new husband never touched me but his daughter did smh
His daughter SA me, we are the same age but she was SA from her older brother, she became a predator and deviant herself. It happened once… but I never confronted her afterwards
I was a sheltered spoiled only child and it ruined a lot of things in my life… I’m in my 40s and still have never told my mother.
Calling her a disciple of Kevin Samuels in an insult. She is young, her content is good, not harmful. She never bashed women. She is brave for even discussing what happened to her and her family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I A trophy wife living my best life 😊
taking extra caution don't mean that people are blaming her. Children are defenseless against adults and today we know more than our parents knew. Warning signs are often revealed in other women stories and our own abuse. We know it can be the neighbor, the teacher, the husband.
if a bank is robbed although the robber is a fault the bank looks into better ways to secure itself. we as mothers must do this. I wouldn't blame her, yet I would encourage all women to not be so trusting with ANY MAN: rich poor short, tall Christian or other. Don't be so trusting
something else came to mind; is it possible that although she said he didn't watch her videos that he actually did and decided to get revenge on her for discussing how she landed him. I don't mean this to say that he is a good person or wasn't an abuser before meeting her. Men don't like for anyone to get over on them and they can be vicious. she even stated that he assaulted her four time at the beginning, and he did other things that she overlooked. this would mean that in real time while she made earlier content, she had already experienced the monster in him. unfortunately, later her babies experienced the monster in him.
I also want to point out that background checks can be misleading. I know a man who literally threw his wife out of a second-floor window and left her in the backyard for the kids to discover, he went to jail (short time not even a year) he later kicked her in the face until it was disfigured. He had a life of crime, drug dealing, pimp and all. He met some good ole Yt men who helped him seal his criminal record. He legally obtained a firearm and had a security business. he abused women after and has the protection of the powerful men he owes favors to.
Lastly. money does not equal love and respect. providing is a part of loving and respect yet there must be other factors that shape a relationship.
Please at least get the story correct if youre going to share it.
the children need to be protected.
That’s Her Kevin Samuels curse. He’s the last person to give advice
Cmon. This day and time. H….. NO
THANK YOU TISA
Tisa, I watched your channel, but I noticed some of the details you shared were incorrect. She was giving her 4-year-old a bath when she told her mom what happened, and later at the hospital, she found out it also involved the 2-year-old. At no point did she say the boys were touched. Also, her sons are older—she had one at 17 and the other at 19. Just wanted to clarify!