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Reasons to Walk Out in the Middle of a Date
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We had coffee and a pastry for our first date. She ate most of her scone minus what would equate two bites. She walked over to the register, cut in front of the person currently ordering, and demanded a refund for the scone. Yes, I’ve had dry/stale scones at coffee places before, but to 1)Eat most of it anyway and want a refund while 2)Cutting in line and shouting like a Karen was my cue to nope out of there. I apologized to the staff and other customers and left.
i dumped my girlfriend at the time at the library bc i had enough of her mind games and she punched me in the head, i laughed at her and said is that the best you got, she ran away then a week later she tries to talk to me, i laughed and igoored her for the last 8 years, everytime she saw me , she would say you could at least say hi. nope.
This dude who took a girl in and then contacted her family secretly is a hero. She could have died out on the street, could have resorted to prostitution and drugs, yet he was willing to put her happiness in front of his own, and did the right thing no matter how hard it was.
I have literally never heard the term "how he treats his Mom" etc. That makes no sense. It's always been how a person treats people serving them.
The guy was disrespectful to the wait staff. Calling them stupid and slow, saying they’re not worth more than a janitor, and just being overall rude.
The final straw was when he asked an innocent waitress if she could pour him a drink, asked her to stand there while he tested it, then spat it in her face. I sat there in complete horror and shock. The poor girl ran off crying. I asked another waiter if they could bring a pitcher of water. When the other waiter came, I snatched the pitcher out of his hand, dumped the water on his head, hit him in the face with the pitcher knocking him to ground and stormed out.
Stories like these are why I don't date. Not worth losing hours of my life and what's left of my sanity when I have no interest in being married at all. Being single is so freeing!
I don't understand girls going to guys houses when meeting the first time. Texting and talking on the phone doesn't mean you know them and can trust them. Please meet in a public place for first couple of dates.
Does it count if I did not know it was a date. I got invite to a co-workers birthday party but the birthday boy them-self and said a few people that Ii work with are also going.I went to the meeting point which was a pub, while having my first drink the birthday boy turns up, so we get a table and wait for the others after 30 mins I ask where is everyone. He then says their isn’t anyone coming it’s just us, it wasn’t even his birthday he just us to get to know each other. I finish my drink and so straight home.the next day I get questioned random co-workers as to why I walked out on the “birthday boys’ date and that it was a dick move.
I wonder: If i become friends with the 3rd person dude. Could i become the "funny friend" secundary character? The one that says the best jokes, that nothing wrong ever happens to him?
I walked out as their cellphone was more important than me. Never said a word, just on their cellphone. I got up and left.
As an 88 dragon…I 💜 dragons
Note: If any man tells you they've seen a lot of pussy, they're talking about cats.
Diarrhea! That can end a date instantly
The naked man doesn't always work. Gotta remember that.
The server test is not always accurate. I treat waitstaff well, but I'm definitely an ahole.
Stories like these make me feel like I’m awesome 😂 definitely a bit of a ego boost knowing I’m nothing like these weirdos
first date, we hung out at the mall, we ended up starting to hook up, and while goin at it in the parkinglot in the back of her small car, she told me that it's okay to finish in her Because she can't get pregnant, but when we was done she let it slip she had a check up because she hadn't had her period in 2 months and was getting nervous
Back in 2018, I decided to give a tinder date a chance since he seemed like a decent person over text. I opted to approach this with cautious optimism and ended up disgusted with them. Not only was he late asf to the restaurant, but he was also very condescending toward our sweet waitress. When I called him out on it, he got defensive and started making fun of her stutter, so I immediately left after paying my half and leaving a tip for her. If they'll disrespect an average person who's doing her best at her job, they'll likely mistreat me ✌🏻
I'm so glad I'm 60 and done with dating a long time ago. When my man dies I will just be single til I die lol
What with weird guys and ADHD lol I have adhd and as far as I’m aware I’m not an ass like them
I wish I had had the confidence to walk out of some bad dates back when I was dating! I mostly tried to cut the date short for a plausible reason, or just see it through knowing it was going nowhere, but not wanting to offend or anger the other person. It’s a bit sad that out of concern for politeness or safety that people (dare I say mostly women) will put up with bad or even scary/creepy/abusive dates.
I was the one who didn't get a… well, 4th date.
For starters I found out all throughout life it was like she was chasing after me. I moved a LOT! After here it'll be my 43rd move. This was at my last place. she's been to every school I went to, which is nuts cuz I've lived out of state a couple times. Once in AZ, once in MD and the rest in NY. She knew one of my oldest friends I heard turned gay about 10 years prior. Turns out she was kinda the reason for that. I saw that as a challenge.
Well, I finally get to have some fun with her and I try to be all sexy like. I start taking her clothes off with my teeth while I hold my hands behind my back. Problem is, I tried taking an Extenz twice that day just to see how it would change things and it made my stomach do back flips all day. Well, this was the moment life and my body decided my day has been too good and needed correction. I was just about to go down on her and then it happened. I threw up all over myself! I struggled to get to my window and couldn't get it opened because it just took so much out of me, so I barffed into a beer mug, panted for a sec, wrenched the window open, threw it outside and filled the mug again. I slowly turned around, face full of shock and humiliation. There she was, just sitting there. "I've never seen anyone throw up all over their dick before." she wasn't judgemental. She wasn't angry. She just never saw a guy throw up on his dick before.
I ran to my bathroom and upchucked a bit more, brushed my teeth, used two different mouthwashes and ate a tictac while I damn near cried at how humiliating it all was. I went back and thankfully didn't have much to clean.
Suffice it to say, that was about as wet as either of us was going to get. That was the last time I saw her. Pity. She was hot and her daughter was adorable. Hope she found someone who treats her right and only pukes on his dick when it's wanted.
chautthrough
That last one caught me off guard 🤦♀️😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
It was a second date. He was just really cringey in general but some highlights were sucking back a Busweiser (he brought it with him) and acting like it was an orgasmic experience, listening to music on his phone while I was cleaning up the kitchen, and falling asleep on my couch with said music playing. I wasn't sure what to do so I just went upstairs to bed (he wouldn't wake up). While packing a freshie he OPENS MY BEDROOM DOOR and just invited himself into my bed. The next morning I got up and went downstairs to drink coffee with my roommate. We were down there for a couple hours before I went back up to deal with the situation. He was awake on his phone talking about "I thought you were in bed behind me still." Then he came downstairs and was just an awkward weirdo until my roommate made up a story about a family gathering at our house and she needed my help to clean. Thankfully he left right after that and didn't attempt to contact me again.
I met her on the internet. Had talked for a couple years. She said she had a medical condition and her family might be a little weird. (OK everyone has something). Later asked if I would be willing to change her diaper. (Thought it was a joke and said of course). Turns out she wasn't kidding. I faked a phone call said My sister stick at the airport. Girl asks can't she get a taxi or does she have the ride share app. I said nope, than explained she just got back from seeing her friends from Germany and had no money. Dropped the girl off her aunt asked why so early, told her the same thing and she said I made the right decision. (Can hear girl complain to aunt, who started yelling at her, when I left.) My phone blew up with texts from her later and she can't wait to see me gain (blocked her number after that)
Guys…dont whip it out on the first date. Ever.
“Her ex husband fckd her bf”
……wat
She was my first date after my divorce.
The entire meal, she talked about her ex-husband who was an alcoholic.
I mean, talked about him to the exclusion of all other topics.
The waiter came by and I ordered a double Manhattan, just to see the expression on her face and then walked out.
Probably not worth the price of the drink, but seemed like the thing to do at the time.
Here's my story:
So I met a girl online.
After a few days of exchanging messages I invited her out on a date.
She said she was going out this Sunday to attend mass and pray that she will do well on her upcoming exams for a managerial promotion at work.
I said let's meet after that, eat and then I'll drive you home.
She agreed.
Our meeting spot was at a convenience store outside the church.
When she finally got out of the church, we immediately spot each other because of our appearance — I'm 6'1 and muscular and she was I think around 5'9 and slim.
Everything was going well until this old man came out of the convenience store.
When they saw each other, they immediately exchanged greetings.
Turns out, they used to be coworkers but the man quit his job to work for another company and it's been awhile since they last saw each other.
After hearing that, as a sane person, I let them talk for a bit.
I waited 5 minutes, they were still talking.
I waited another 5 minutes, still talking.
After another 10 minutes passed, I asked to excuse myself for a moment because I wanted to check out a shoe store across the street.
The woman said sure and immediately went back to talking with the man.
I crossed the street, went straight to my motorcycle and immediately drive home which was a 10-minute drive.
5 minutes later after I got home I received a text from her, "Friend, where are you?"
I didn't reply and never heard from her ever again.
Suddenly I feel a lot better about all the times I was stood up.
18:36 is literally EVERYYYYY encounter with a man you meet online 😂
Went for a lunch and movie date with a guy after breaking up with my ex. It was in the middle of summer, so I wore a dress that went down to my ankles in length as it was pretty hot outside. During lunch, the guy told me I was such a tease for wearing a dress – and proudly announced he was going to finger me in the movie theatre. I told him I didn’t want too, but he rolled his eyes playfully and said “oh come on, no girl wears a dress or skirt to the movie theatre with the intent to merely watch the movie! it’s not like you have much of a choice, I’m paying for your lunch so you owe me” got up, paid for my food and drink sped out of there. never saw him again, later watched endgame with my younger brother.
25:50 – Doesn't want to rush things…Already having sex. WTF?!
When he followed me to a museum I said I was going to. It’s funny because I didn’t even agree to a date, he just went there because he knew I would be there. And by funny I mean I decided right then that I wasn’t interested. He however, did not catch in until several months later
25:50 I don't get this
They're having sex but she bails on him because he tells her about future plans?
Not even a "yeah I just wanna stick to being fuckbuddies for now" kind 'o shtick?
I treat everyone, especially those who have the ability to spit in my food back in the kitchen, with respect but I loathe wait staff chatting me up and trying to build their tip through talking. I want to interrupt and quietly tell them, "I already have a date and you're not it. Please stop intruding and taking up more of my limited time with them."
I was on a double date with my friend and her new guy. I barely knew my date but he was very attractive. I was a little over dressed, a cute sexy little cocktail dress that was elegant so not too sexy. But I felt good, like I looked good. I had high hopes for this date, the guy was hot and I felt beautiful that night. Suddenly our waitress showed up and immediately began talking to the guys we were with. She pointedly ignored us women and began talking and flirting with the men and invited them to a party. My friends new guy was definitely interested and said he would like to go. This invitation did not extend to us ladies, so it was clear what she was doing. I sat there fuming at the audacity of this b-tch and lack of checking her behavior by the men, and then she began taking our orders. I said “I’d like to order a bowl of milk for you to lap up like a cat in front of these guys, just in case you didn’t make your sleazy intentions clear enough the first time, Miss Kitty”. Then I stood up and walked out. I was going to call my dad to come get me because they drove. My date followed me out, apologizing profusely for his friend (he didn’t say anything himself during all this, just sat listening to her talk). He asked me to come back in and eat, that he had no intentions of following his friend to the party and didn’t want anything to do with that girl. I came back in but was a complete witch to his friend and pointedly ignored him and shot him dirty looks until it was time to go. I also asked someone for a different waitress to be sent to our table instead of the one we had, and explained why. It was awkward AF at our table after that, and my female friend tried to smooth it over and act like what he did was ok. It wasn’t. They didn’t last the week because he didn’t care about her. His friend and I dated for over a year before it ended because we just were not right for each other. But it was a passionate love affair while it lasted. We were fire in the bedroom but not compatible out of it. So for that year we played to our strengths 😉