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Just think about the times they invalidated you. Or think about how much more low they have sunken post-narcissistic relationship. You really think they’re doing that much better out there? She’s still the same fruit loop just living in a different toilet now. But that’s not my problem now
The school of ‘narcissist’ teaches you all very well, all of those beautiful moments that you plant so well into our hearts/minds 😩
Those moments still appear from time to time, but with your excellent work and support they never remain for long before they become nothing more than a minor distraction from what you were doing.
You have to become dull like a rock. Literally shut down. Disengage as in do not engage in the conversation. Don’t exchange information. I did that with the major narc in my life. This person fought it until I told them I couldn’t do it anymore, I was tired of their incessant talking, and control, and I got a headache each time. Didn’t wait for a response. And hung up on the phone. Helps to have about 1,300 miles distance between me and the narc.
along with no-contact, I also did a thing that I call no-context. I deliberately didn't allow any passage of thought which had anything to do with love, romance, or relationships, because it seemed to have become a rabbit-hole. I looked for anything that made me feel brighter, and didn't break the rules of no-context. whenever I began to think about either my partner or relationships in general, instead I would focus on one of the bright things that I'd been collecting. this was tricky at first but after a few days worked like a magic spell where I could make the trauma-bond just vanish in a moment. I didn't need to get rid of her things either, I re-parented them for myself.
How will a narcissist react to being exposed to the police with an undeniable audio file, where the narcissist say how they will use and abuse and let other adults do even further the the kids of the narcissist? So far, they deleted ALL their online persona and as far as I have heard, they are changing countries. Such narcissist (the one i am writing about) must be a step below great, but they are aware of what they are, that much i can tell. I can also mention they are coached by maybe a great narc, a public figure with a great decent mask and also, deep financial resources. Would the great narc care about their little pet, this particular narc who I am putting in so much trouble? We all 3, are in different countries now, but all the mess happened when we all were in the same country. I am hitting from a far distance, but also, I have a very public presence in social media. Everyone knows where I am (with a time delay), moving as a world traveler permanently, sharing my trips and stuff, enjoying my freedom…. which comes after battling a lifetime of narcissists.
The Final Battle: How to Stop Having Feelings for the Narcissist.
1. Find another person to target
2. Learn to play the piano, violin, drums and conduct an orchestra
3. Train every day, no less than 2 hours
4. Learn to paint, reach Michelangelo level
5. Do meditation
6. Grow a vegetable garden or learn how to produce tons of grain
7. Get a puppy, or babysit dogs
8. Abandon your family of origin, they are the cause of everything (even the stones know it)
9. Make new friends or brush up on old ones
10. Renew your furniture or move its layout
11. Renew your style of clothing, hairstyle, makeup
12. Change city.
13. Close all social media accounts
14. Change phone number
15. Before all this, throw everything belonging to the narcissist, including gifts, into the garbage.
16, Go to therapy when abuse has left you with brain damage irreversible
17. Take care of yourself, once and for all.
18. Listen to HG Tudor's lectures, but perhaps this comes first of all if you are lucky.
19. Don't listen to my advice, get there on your own.
If what stops you from doing all these things is the fear of suffering even more: remember, that you could never feel worse than what you are already suffering. You need to start as early as possible. Crying is good for you.
Just think about the times they invalidated you. Or think about how much more low they have sunken post-narcissistic relationship. You really think they’re doing that much better out there? She’s still the same fruit loop just living in a different toilet now. But that’s not my problem now
The final battle 🤔
The school of ‘narcissist’ teaches you all very well, all of those beautiful moments that you plant so well into our hearts/minds 😩
Those moments still appear from time to time, but with your excellent work and support they never remain for long before they become nothing more than a minor distraction from what you were doing.
Thank you, HG, sending you love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You have a great story telling voice HG
My no contact regimen sucks. I was just hoovered last night 🤦🏻♀️
Don’t say why any longer… l am over it was a complete nightmare…so thankful l am able to overcome… through your education… many thanks HG❤
No contact… GOSO 👍👍👍
Freedom… moving on moving out … ❤❤❤
But how do I stop thinking about HG though?
That's impossible… for HG is everywhere and nowhere at the same time.
He's always inside me though. In spirit…
You have to become dull like a rock. Literally shut down.
Disengage as in do not engage in the conversation.
Don’t exchange information.
I did that with the major narc in my life.
This person fought it until I told them I couldn’t do it anymore, I was tired of their incessant talking, and control, and I got a headache each time. Didn’t wait for a response. And hung up on the phone.
Helps to have about 1,300 miles distance between me and the narc.
When in the thinking loop- I say ‘I choose healing, I choose healing’ ..it works for me 🙌🏼 ✨
along with no-contact, I also did a thing that I call no-context. I deliberately didn't allow any passage of thought which had anything to do with love, romance, or relationships, because it seemed to have become a rabbit-hole. I looked for anything that made me feel brighter, and didn't break the rules of no-context. whenever I began to think about either my partner or relationships in general, instead I would focus on one of the bright things that I'd been collecting.
this was tricky at first but after a few days worked like a magic spell where I could make the trauma-bond just vanish in a moment. I didn't need to get rid of her things either, I re-parented them for myself.
How will a narcissist react to being exposed to the police with an undeniable audio file, where the narcissist say how they will use and abuse and let other adults do even further the the kids of the narcissist? So far, they deleted ALL their online persona and as far as I have heard, they are changing countries. Such narcissist (the one i am writing about) must be a step below great, but they are aware of what they are, that much i can tell. I can also mention they are coached by maybe a great narc, a public figure with a great decent mask and also, deep financial resources. Would the great narc care about their little pet, this particular narc who I am putting in so much trouble? We all 3, are in different countries now, but all the mess happened when we all were in the same country. I am hitting from a far distance, but also, I have a very public presence in social media. Everyone knows where I am (with a time delay), moving as a world traveler permanently, sharing my trips and stuff, enjoying my freedom…. which comes after battling a lifetime of narcissists.
Thank-you H.G.
Life goes on! Just enjoy your life!
Start a new life, putting yourself first in everything, as if they never existed.
Thank you HG ❤
Hello H.G.💫
The Final Battle: How to Stop Having Feelings for the Narcissist.
1. Find another person to target
2. Learn to play the piano, violin, drums and conduct an orchestra
3. Train every day, no less than 2 hours
4. Learn to paint, reach Michelangelo level
5. Do meditation
6. Grow a vegetable garden or learn how to produce tons of grain
7. Get a puppy, or babysit dogs
8. Abandon your family of origin, they are the cause of everything (even the stones know it)
9. Make new friends or brush up on old ones
10. Renew your furniture or move its layout
11. Renew your style of clothing, hairstyle, makeup
12. Change city.
13. Close all social media accounts
14. Change phone number
15. Before all this, throw everything belonging to the narcissist, including gifts, into the garbage.
16, Go to therapy when abuse has left you with brain damage irreversible
17. Take care of yourself, once and for all.
18. Listen to HG Tudor's lectures, but perhaps this comes first of all if you are lucky.
19. Don't listen to my advice, get there on your own.
If what stops you from doing all these things is the fear of suffering even more:
remember, that you could never feel worse than what you are already suffering.
You need to start as early as possible.
Crying is good for you.
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