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Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
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Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.
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Establish No Contact or Low Contact:
Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:
Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:
Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:
Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:
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Oh yes and the narcs love to throw those verses at you too when they know you're Christian. "Leave me? That's not very loving or christ like is it?" 🤨 and my ex who used to say I'm not forgiving and i hold grudges so our kids will hate me . He never admitted what he did to me even tho he got arrested for it lol
I think we stay because we do not know we are abused and society denies it too!
Also there is misinformation!
It is not narcissism!
It is malignant narcissism!
I agree with everything you said. We must be faithful to our values, beliefs and standards and staying in abusive relationships is enabling evil behaviour. Jesus walked away from people who didn’t want to change. He talked and stayed with His friends not with the religious leaders who were plotting against Him.
This is for God to handle.
A narcissistic spouse is evil. They have broken covenant with you. Walk away.
It's true, narcissists and psychopaths put themselves in the place of God and demand to be treated like God. It should be a problem for believers because it is idolatry. My husband's first wife is deceased, she committed suicide… I almost became deceased myself, until the Lord opened my eyes and I learned about narcissists and psychopaths. Then everything became clear and I remained alive. Thank you Kevin for fighting for souls.
It’s their excuse for them to get away with abusing you & way too Christians think they are supposed to put up with it. What’s worse yet, is Christians will get caught up in the smear campaign & think nothing about it. There’s going to be a lot of supposed Christians, going to be sorry for targeting the anointed, for the sake of the demonic narcissist. Loose yourself not, for the sake of the NarcNessMonster!!
Amen , Jesus never stayed where he wasn't welcomed and when you're persecutedi in one place flee to another
The big problem is the marriage vows we made "in sickness and in health, 'til death do us part". If you don't stay "faithful" until the day you die, you have the distressing thought that you're breaking those sacred vows that were meant to be "forever". But my ex broke the vows long before, by being absent and also miserable and not supporting us both to avoid the sickness of depression due to his behaviours and attitude, and he definitely wasn't there for me "in health" – instead extremely dismissive or getting easily bored or just outright ignoring me when I had good things to talk about and celebrate – he shut me out of having a wholesome relationship.
We suffer for Him because everyone is a narcissist right now like their daddy the devil. That is their choice. They have free will. They chose darkness rather than the light. The Bible says to separate from lawlessness and confusion and darkness and that we will have to leave families and homes and jobs to follow The Lord. God does not advocate that you should stay in an abusive situation. However we’re in the last days and people are exactly as described in the last days – they’re violent, abusive, heartless, merciless, unnatural, ungrateful, lovers of self etc. and you can’t escape them. It’s everyone in this latter generation.
It’s like this world is basically like the mansion in El Angel Exterminador by Luis Bunuel. And Jesus came to find the lost sheep. The mansion is full of these conceited aristocrats who progressively become increasingly deranged and psychotic. They can’t leave the mansion. Their pride and vanity will not allow them to leave. Even if they wanted to they love themselves and the representation of themselves according to the system even if in reality it has nothing to do with who they really are. The only ones who can leave are the sheep who hear Gods voice and can smell the smoke and can see that Rome is going to burn and take the warning signs seriously and get out while they still can. The entire earth is like that mansion.
There is no escape. No exit. We will suffer for Jesus and we will be resurrected with Him. A servant is not better than their Master the Scriptures tell us.
His burden is lighter. But we will suffer for His namesake…
Stay away from them. The narcissists and psychopaths and those involved in witchcraft and black magic as far as possible but they will constantly seek after you to abuse you…
Abusive childhood, abusive Ex-Husband, abusive children..when the time has come, i could flee after 19 years. But i lost 5 children, a lot of money, reverse discarded. First he locked the doors when i stayed in the house, then he locked the doors after me, when the police safed me. He said to me, it would be better if i die. A horrible divorce was following over many years. Gaslighting, silent treatment, smear campaign. I live now far away a new good life. But almoust crying when thinking about the children, i tried to be a good mother to them, but my Ex-Husband had devastated everything, so i was like a cow, which gave much milk and the slaughter was waiting…and he and his bloodline are saying they are Christians. I try to forgive them all, so i hope for freedom for my soul. May Jesus help me and all the victims of narcisstic abuses
It is the same thing when I heard about forgiveness and I instantly reply with "Forgiveness is Not Tolerance!!"
THANK YOU KEVIN!!! … this is such a critical video!! I appreciate you so much and continuing to teach the truth about these toxic individuals!
Narcissistic behavior wasn’t meant for marriages, because although marriages will go through rough times, they are for the most be loving, nurturing and healthy marriages. A marriage with narcissism is never healthy and if you have children, it’s a bad example you’re showing them of what a marriage should be.
Thank you, I think this video did it for me…… I want to serve Christ. Thank you my friend ❤
"Your crown is in not losing yourself." Well said. There are many, many of us who have been stuck in narcissistic relationships with no way out; it's not so easy to go "no contact," if you're a woman with children, dependent upon your narcissistic spouse for financial reasons, or if there is a threat to your safety. For myself, a disabled woman living with, and financially dependent on, my narcissistic elderly mother; there was apparently no way out for me. You can't "divorce" a parent, and walk away with half of their assets…I was stuck and stuck firmly. So how did I get out?
"The only way out is in." That's the path I followed. I'm not religious (obviously lol. Hence my username), but I am spiritual. So instead of packing up my belongings and my 6 cats in my 20-year-old car and heading off to god knows where, I meditated. I went inward. I took up a spiritual practice, and began the deep self-reflection which inevitably led to the healing of my inner wounds. I freed myself from my mother on an inner level. And then, only about 4 years after I had begun my practice, my mother died rather suddenly from her own health issues, releasing me from the last vestiges of control she had over me.
The universe works in not-so mysterious ways. You don't need to go no-contact; simply work on connecting with your inner true self, and watch as life unfolds in seemingly miraculous ways. Many blessings and much love to anyone reading this…"know thyself." <3
I stayed because I said I would, I committed, before God and community. I stayed for years. Because I SAID I would. It very gradually came to the conclusion of being a masochist. In a jail without a lock. Only because I said I would.
I got out. No regrets.
PROTECT AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
My situation is that my parents live with me ,I am responsible for them. So I just stay and take the abuse
@ (6:10–6:15) You're not Jesus, and in fact, nobody is and could never be. So, that means that we as individuals should not accept mistreatment from others. Especially, others who get a kick out of perceiving us to be like Jesus.
If you are called to be a martyr, it should never be in a marriage or trusting relationship.
It's a perfect storm.
End stages of perimenopause so the "over the top nurturing" hormones are going "bye-bye."
All abusers are gone.
And I can go anywhere I want.
The perfect storm of "you never, ever, ever get to weigh in."
To everyone.
This is good.
Fuelled by finding out I got "catch me if you can-ed" for 18 months.
And I'm calm.
Thanks pops.
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This is the best advice outside of the Bible that I have ever received.