Q&A: Conan's Advice On Dealing With Insecurity & Self-Doubt | Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend



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40 thoughts on “Q&A: Conan's Advice On Dealing With Insecurity & Self-Doubt | Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend”

  1. I've been watching Conan most of my life and enjoying his humor all of my life (He was a writer and producer of my favorite Simpson's seasons that I'd watched as a kid). I would love to meet him one day and thank him for all the laughter and joy he brought to my life. In fact, when I'm in a dark place I watch his videos to help me get out of it.

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  2. deal with gangstalking for a few years and you stop caring about other people and their opinions and start worrying about how you'll ever escape. america is a prison for some of us. your culture is sick and horrible.

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  3. Tomorrow’s World Relationships

    A perfect match? A loving family? Happy children? The pressures of today’s world create a grim reality where successful and lasting relationships are something of a fantasy. We cannot rely on the experience of elders since they lived in a very different world, so we have to find how to create meaningful and sustainable partnerships today. The key word in this search is connectedness, or rather, interconnectedness.

    Because the world is changing at an accelerating pace, it is pointless to compare today’s relationships to those of our parents, or even to relationships of people a decade or two older than us. Each year, the world becomes increasingly connected, and a crisis in one place quickly spreads to the rest of the world.

    On the personal level, too, things today are very different from what they were a decade ago. We have moved from fast food to fast relationships, and brief has become our permanent state of being.

    To cope with the growing uncertainty and find direction in the emerging chaos, we need to understand where we are going. We are headed toward total connectedness and interdependence. It is an irreversible process. The more connected we become, the more dependent on each other we become, as well. Soon, we will realize that anything that hurts others hurts me, too, and there is nothing I can do to break my ties with the world.

    In order to cope successfully with our interconnected future, we must change the nature of our ties from abusive and oppressive to supportive and embracing. Since we already broadcast our thoughts, words, and actions to the entire world, we might as well broadcast positive thoughts, words, and actions, and help improve the world for ourselves and others.

    In a world that is connected positively, the family is the basic unit of connection. A reality where humanity is a mass of isolated individuals is unsustainable because there will be no connections between people and society will disintegrate just as any organism disintegrates into the smallest elements when it dies.

    Therefore, the family will be the basic unit where people cultivate positive connections. Since people are becoming increasingly individualistic, the family will be the place where people learn to embrace diversity rather than fight against people who hold different views. People will learn that just as our body exists thanks to different cells and organs working together for the sake of the body, different people who work together for the sake of the family enable the success of the family.

    From the family unit, people will take their lessons to the community, from the community to the city, from the city to the state, to the country, and finally to the entire world. The key, therefore, to successful relationships in tomorrow’s world, lies not only in connections, but in connections between different people for a common goal, where the differences between them ensure their success and make their mutual dependence imperative, and even welcome.

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  4. I love this man 😭😭😭💎 i would watch conan when i was in high school and uni, religiously going to the website to watch the night befores episode because we didnt have tv. It must be insane to find out years later how many silent young people admired him over the years.

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  5. Insecurity and self-doubt will not be cured by more material success. Insecurity, self-doubt, self-hatred, are not related to clicks and views and comments and likes and followers and money and fame and being recognized at a Starbucks.

    This is good news. This is why: if those things are not a cure for your current suffering, that means you can safely cure your current suffering with OTHER modalities, e.g deep breathing, exercise, journaling, and do so right now, and then go on to persue fame or views or attention if you still want it.

    Do you see now why this is useful? it means the thing you wanted is now more accessible. You don't have to go all the way to the top of the mountain to get clean drinking water when there is a clean, full bottle at home.

    And that is the problem with "attention seekers" or "fame whores". There's nothing wrong with enjoying, or even persuing fame. The problem lies with the idea that "I am unloveable" and the only way to become loveable is to be MORE famous.

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  6. There's a reality to dealing with insecurity and self-doubt that most people are never told. The reason you feel that way is because it's the truth and part of you knows it. If you want to end that feeling and find confidence in yourself, you have to convince that part of you that there's a reason to be confident. This means you have to prove your self-worth to yourself. You have to make good decisions, you have to do well at things worth doing, and you have to be willing to fail, get up, and try again until you succeed.

    That's it, that's the secret. Get uncomfortable and do the hard work of actually improving yourself. And be damn grateful you have that part of you that's willing to be honest about who and what you really are, not everyone has it.

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  7. It's really strange to look at things like this, recognize how much society has changed for a mainstream celebrity like Conan to talk the way he does here and then think of the many, many people who are like "We want to go back to the good old days!"
    Really?
    Not that everything is great right now. In fact, I think the golden era was about 20 years ago. Between the discrimination and violence from before then and the progressive nonsense that followed.

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