Relationship Reddit Stories, OPs Husband suddenly changed when they had their child and seemed to shut himself away and started to exhibit behaviours that put their family in danger.
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She's lying to herself if she thinks this is new behavior. He hadn't worked in FIVE YEARS, sounds like he's able bodied, but she paid for weekly and monthly house cleanings? Yeah, dudes been a leech for years. Everything he's doing now is punishment for not leaving him alone and having a nanny raise her kid instead. He's trying to seriously hurt OP, if not OP AND daughter. I haven't finished the story yet, but if she doesn't leave him, I…. will be very annoyed with her 😤
Those last lines are encouraging. Tho the fact she felt the need to put it in code means that she probably knows he's a real and present threat to her health. I hope she and her kid get out safe. That dude is giving Chris Watts
She wasn't even done with her list before I started thinking this must be weaponized incompetents because he either assumes she is faking how much help she needs or wants her to divorce him on her call.
Just divorce him he is a liability you need to think of yourself and your child.
did she ever address the part where he never "oopsies" his own stuff? that is extremely bizarre, even if it is subconscious…
Story 2, OP is too good for her husband. The amount of times he is careless about her and their daughter vs how understanding she is about him not having a job, giving him time off for daycare for their daughter and a maid, plus a fun money to do his streaming is glaring. She is much more altruistic than he is, and his one solution is to start drinking grape juice on stream and maybe go to a psychologist…the imbalance continues. She would be just as well off as a single mom, except she wouldn't be stressed and worried all the time from his many "mistakes."
Wait, so he sabotages stuff for her and the kid but never himself, and he doesn’t work because, checks notes he’s convinced his wife his coworkers don’t respect women enough for him? Wow. This woman, she shouldn’t be raising a child. I say that with certainty, if you’re capable of believing lies like that, the most obvious tailored for you lies ever? Somebody could kidnap her child by having a conversation with her, that level of dangerous gullibility and vulnerability to weak gaslighting is crazy.
Story 2 – She needs to collect evidence and file, for her daughter’s sake if not anything else
Yikes. Id been hoping for an update on that but i still hope she's Ok
Your husband is trying to kill your daughter. You need to get full custody, and he has supervised visits. Get away from him as quickly as you can. Your daughter is in real danger! Good luck, my dear. Be safe.
Grapefruit juice!!!! The guy is trying to harm her on purpose absolutely NO WAY! For those that don’t know Grapefruit juice interacts negatively with medications
I'm sorry but he has been playing you for Years …..he doesn't care
OP has totally enabled her Peter Pan of a husband.
WHATS WITH THE GOTHIC MUSIC AND DEMON WAFFLES LOL
It was "fine," husband didn't work in 5 years?! Are you f-ing kidding me?! You will be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. This man is disgusting and is using you, OP. Just end it, FFS. SMH. HE'S A LOSER, OP!!!!! OMFG
OP should check to see if the is a life insurance policy on her and the child.
I think her husband has a drug problem. He doesn’t want to think of his wife or daughter. Or he may have a brain tumor. Get him off to the Doctor. But messing up. Like he is. Being the child in the relationship. For some reason he is refusing to grow up. And if he screws up . The spilling his pills. He acts like and expects you will be making money forever. He might be in a major depressive episode as well. One problem at a time . But multiple problems 10:18 being caused . He may be trying to get rid of them . All those years of working in that environment maybe. He needs to get his butt to a Doctor. If he loves you and your child. He has to go.
I would be worried for OPs life he has realized what being married to someone handicapped is about . His words leave me very worried. She has realized he no longer sees her as the woman he loves or just a person. And when she was quoting her Lawer. Just proves she has already been there,done that. I wonder if he was trying to set a pattern where he looked drunk on his stream. And woops burnt the house down with his disabled wife and child inside but hay he was drunk and having memory problems so it’s not murder.
This is not a man who has OP's best interests at heart. His comment about how he must have something wrong with his head to marry someone "medically fragile" was him literally telling OP what he thinks about her. He thinks that she is less than because of her disability, even though she is the reason they have a roof over their heads and the reason why he's able to choose not to work. His "medically fragile" wife is not the reason why this relationship isn't working. He is the reason. He prioritises a hobby over his child. He breaks things that other people love. His "medically fragile" wife is his caretaker.
Unless he has some type of brain tumor or something, OP needs to pack it up and go.
1. Dang, if all of that is true he is a liability and she would be better off without him.
Holy cow! My husband drops & breaks things frequently & has ruined some of my things, but OP’s husband in the 1st story is a disaster!
I don't believe a word from the husband. I don't believe that he has ADHD, or anything of that sort. However, I do believe that husband is actively, maliciously, and attempting to be sneaky into "unaliving' his wife and child. Pretending to be "mentally unwell." Either that, or he's attempting to be "diagnosed" as mentally disabled, so that he can divorce her and get part of HER money. Apologies mean nothing without action. And now that she's had that 'talk' with him, he's going to pretend some more….This is so… dark. I'm truly afraid for her. She's his meal ticket….his daughter is his meal ticket. Jokes about disability? No. Wasn't a joke. She's in danger.
He grabbed a cup and put it on the burner?
He got himself a spineless sugarmama. Good for him i guess. She will never listen with advices anyway.
I call bs on the reasons why he cannot work!
it sounds like your husband is a spoiled brat teenager only child that's got a resentment against his own child for taking attention away from him and wants things to go back to how it was before the child
OP needs to document all these slip-ups for the purposes of custody. This man needs to figure out why he became so angry after the birth of this child, because way too many of his “goofs” put her in literal danger. He can’t take her off by himself unless and until he gets a handle on what’s going on and addresses it.
Story 1: Your husband is either malicious or stupid; you need to divorce him now! He is not good for your physical, spiritual, emotional, and psychological health!
Your mom is an asshole for telling you that calling your husband a liability was an asshole move! Tell her if she thinks that then she is a liability as well!
Story 1: Why do you want to talk to this loser; divorce him now for your child and yourself safety!
Story 1: Change the locks permanently!
He thinks he babytrapped her and now he can act like the true douchebag he is. I’m glad she’s made it clear she’ll leave if she has to.
If he keeps repeating the same "mistakes", they're no longer mistakes. They're a choice. He's abusive and leeching off OP. The switch flipped because he thinks she's locked in now that they've had a baby. She's making all kinds of excuses for him not holding a job. He's not holding up his end of responsibilities. He's more than happy leeching off her. I'm very skeptical of his sudden change of heart.
…I hope she's moving fast because I think OPs going to die otherwise
WTF, just listening yo story 1 made me tired and aggravated. No way would I be able to be with someone who I have to mother or immature or reckless. It would drive me crazy and no way is it not weaponized incompetence.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
There was a story I seen the other day about a father leaving his children to unalive in his hot car because he wanted to play a game. Op needs a good lawyer and to protect her child.
Sounds like he wants a divorce but doesn't want to start the convo. He wants to instigate a conflict, so she'll end it