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Congrats man
Those people are garbage, tank why did you suffer for so long it’s not worth it
Imagine raiding with minors as static be like. 😥 I dislike with the mindset of self and peers as top priority and keep changing words what they already had been agreed on, and whoever is newly joined the premade static is just “sub” even though they’re not sub, and is not as important as them. So unhinged. I don’t feel comfortable and I feel upset and sad how she had to be through such time with those ego gamers. I know some people in there probably don’t like toxic environment but they don’t want to get trouble because it’s their friends and have to say “I’m okay with it. I don’t mind”, BUT it’s best to talk and discuss like grown ups instead of saying bad words to peers and strangers and/or treat others like shit like having main-character syndrome. People playing FFXIV are from internet, sure, but when it’s static, I personally treat it like a work and be friendly. tbh I’m sometimes toxic when I run with strangers in PFs when I get tilted. It is a toxic that I’ve been trying to fix on and I always feel bad when I did bad to strangers that I don’t even know how they had been through irl, health conditions, etc.
Thank you so much again Pathra! Listening to you is like an ASMR to me when I work. 💐🥰
I raid with my friends and we make a spreadsheet to make sure we're evenly distributing out gear just because it's a lot more organized and easier for us to keep track of things since we forget haha The fact the OP was getting pushed off of getting gear because they were a tank is ridiculous. We always make sure everyone is BIS on the job they've been raiding with before handing out gear for other jobs you want to gear up. The group in the story was all sorts of off 🥴
This story is similar to the reasons I stopped raiding in other games. I usually am the one people meet as they’re starting out and leveling up or getting geared. Then I just sort of get left out because someone is better friends with the static group and they sort of push me out. Oh well… I hope you liked using my room as a backdrop Pathra! 😊
i wanna get into a static so i can get some free drama without paying cable
Funny thing is.. after a few weeks.. people won’t care about loots and stuff. Get bored and play other games.. so all the drama will be all for nothing
"Static loot distribution" – that title is giving me flashback of old WoW drama when it came to high-end Raiding back in the day, i never want to go back to those days. xD
Also, are you a teacher this week Pathra? :O
Loot distribution is always dps, then tank, then healer for all gear. Then healers get first dibs on other stuff like mount/orchestrion and work backwards.
That's the worst feeling, being used like that and realizing you have no friends.
Cry me a river, calling out a fuck up isnt toxic. You just don’t want to admit you fucked up. Grow up and put ur big person pants on.
I guess that's the beauty of just doing PFs. If you encounter a bad player either in mechanics or attitude, just blacklist them and move one. True there are times you get stuck in the PF if you're unlucky, but it won't be emotionally draining compared to having to put up a drama in a static.
Also, love the classroom vibe in the background! 😀
I love toxicity so much to be honest. It's just so much fun
I'm kinda lost not gonna lie I don't really do all that content and the terms are Greek to me. I do get the feelings of being looked over for loot Its a rough bag, good on ya for sticking it out for as long as you did, gold star
I really don’t wanna static raid, a friend who is toxic af as well told me over a week ago that nobody likes to play with me because I got no ambitions to be a perfect player. So they won’t do Savage. Content with me. I think that I should still be allowed to try clearing savage content right? But what my friend said even scared me to join pf… or are there actually people who embrace casual players trying to do savage without bashing or getting rude towards casual players?🙃
Using these vidoes as educational material of what not to do in FF14
I would just stop using my cds as a tank at that point, and be like "well maybe if i had a better weapon, I would play better 🙂"
Lol grown adults fighting over fear that won’t mean anything in months
This shit is why i stopped raiding in ffxiv. Even worse, as a healer i could be blamed for other fuck ups but we cant call out shit dps? Healer shortage will only get worse
This is definitely one of the most tragic stories you've told so far. That static is the worst. Just not great human beings. Screw them. And I personally believe they robbed her BiS on purpose. Not like, sat around, twirling their mustaches, but as in they didn't like her and had an unspoken agreement she would never receive the thing she rightfully earned. Also, stop malding, you little bitches. Mute yourself and throw your mouse like men.
6:25 “-we are used to this toxicity”
…How the fuck do you live with yourselves at home? No wonder we so much Karens.
I think, as with many of these, there are two sides to every story and we're hearing one. I also think I'm lucky because my static is chill and we are just out to have fun together.
This happened to me when I use to raid back in Eden. They went to my friend who also raided with us and was trash talking me and basically saying I was wiping the raid on purpose one night. I was baffled when he told me. I admit I wasn't feeling well and made allot of mistakes but they didn't believe it. What hurt the most was my own friend who I had known for years actually took their side since he got very close with them. They didn't kick me or anything. I left because if people think I have time to spend hours to wipe a party on purpose are not people I want to raid with ever.
tbf people with 630 tome weapons have less need for the 635, is not such a boost as from someone who had 615, on my static my DRK was the last to get weapon too. Like I'm sorry to break it to the person, but a hardcore/midcore static would do this and it's normal, it sounds to me they took it too personal and got in such a defensive spot that it became toxic, like again sorry not sorry, but this community can be toxic in its avoidant to toxicity.
She should have left when she was getting a bad vibe its a game why play if you gotta feel like that or deal with bs
Pathra I'm hooked on these drama stories please never stop doing them 🤣 I could relate to many of them so they're fun to immerse myself into