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I only went on group dates. Safety was a huge concern for me, too. Also I much preferred that everyone pay their own way on a date. Whenever a man has fought me on this, he’s always later thought something was owed to him (sex), just because he paid. So to me a guy insisting on paying is a HUGE red flag. I feel safer with everyone paying their own way.
And now I’m married. I’m a stay-at-home mom, and my husband pays all the bills. So I guess I will allow a man to pay for me if I trust him. But I don’t trust easily.
Eskel not getting the risk a woman takes in going on a date is really infuriating. I wish he wasn't arguing against it. Omg why am I putting that in my head? I guess eskel thinks woman should be celibate. Does he not have any idea how many women die at the hands of their partners.
Absolutely agree with Eskel in regard to paying for the date. I would want to show that I am independent and not having to rely on someone paying my way.
Im with Eskel on the paying side of things. I see where Amanda is at, but me personally I'm more comfortable paying, or paying half. Too many times I've had a guy pay then look at me like property. For my first dates lol, I bring pepper spray, a pocket knife, a Taser, be in steel toes, 😉 and have my inner momma bear on stand by🐻. I try to love freely and fully, knowing heartbreak is a needed experience.
Re: about 23:00 in… Love is giving someone the power to destroy your and trusting them not to. ❤️
Eskel, they were probably worried about concussion at a minimum. The reaction you had to the truck shows potential shock/concussion. You also were not probably oriented to time, place, etc. combined with physical trauma. If you had tons of debris in your face it could be an issue
I'm so sorry I missed your live. I think if Amanda would be expected to pay, it would remind her of her Mom's relationship, paying for everything. From growing up in a cult!
The thing is these days it's better for people for the first few dates to either do Dutch (pay for yourself) however after the meal or whatever your doing if you go do something after then take it in turns ..
However after a few dates that the time where the man should step up and say no I will pay as it shows the woman that the man is willing to pay for things for his woman . Ideally I think it's because it shows the woman that the man will provide for his family or someone that's important to him ..
For me I tend to pay if need be however I do let others pay for me in different cases .. my other half paid for me the other day for a meal however I think this was mainly because they knew I had major bills coming out over the next week and 2 bills were unexpected
I rarely use my oven and also use it for storage. I used to use ovens years ago but now rarely. Makes my house too hot.
my bf and I take turns. we're both pretty broke so we mostly eat in anyway.
@Amanda Rae I actually think Shalise does like you!
I'm old fashion. If a guy ask you on a date, they should pay. But if you ask them, then you pay. I have been asked out and then come to find out he didn't have the money, and I ended up having to pay. I got so pissed off. I haven't ever excepted gifts on dates. Usually if they bring gifts they want more then just that dinner date and movie. I still tell my husband not to get me flowers cause they just die.
Eskel, have you ever been in an abused in a relationship? Being in an abusive relationship, changes how you see the other sex and changes how you date others. I have talked with your sister Amanda, and told I would like to do a video with her about being in abusive relationship. I'm just waiting on her. This is Trista Adams
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