Ep 2: The Lawrence Brothers on People Pleasing & Building Trust



This week, Joey, Matt, and Andy discuss the dark side of being a people pleaser, the importance of keeping your word, and how vital trust and respect are in every single relationship.

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44 thoughts on “Ep 2: The Lawrence Brothers on People Pleasing & Building Trust”

  1. This podcast is great I love these guys. They are so hilarious and I love how close they are. Andy is so handsome, all three are, Andy is so adorable. I can definitely see him in a Tim Burton movie.

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  2. Matt is a wise guy! And Joey is wise too, though they all like to have a good laugh. There are some really good nuggets of wisdom. Andy is a good listener and has given his brothers room to share, which is nice.

    Part of loving someone isn’t always just doing whatever they want. As Matt said, it’s about trust and respect, kindness, and loving the other person enough to have honest/real respectful conversations. Not holding onto grudges. Genuinely desiring the best for one another. Sometimes people equate love to the feeling of love, but really— love is a verb. We love by doing what is most loving. Love does hard things. Love tells someone the hard truth in kindness. Love doesn’t look to tear the other person down but to be honest and really genuinely care for them. Like, if someone regularly shows up late for every dinner together— some people think its nice to just be ok with that. The truth is— in love, it would be kinder to say something. Like, “Listen, Im thankful to see you but I every time we make plans you aren’t here on time and it hurts my feelings.” It may feel weird to say that but in a loving relationship the other person should respond with “I see what you mean, I guess that is hurtful, Im sorry, I will try my best to be on time from now on.” That is love and respect and honesty. It would be great if the person who was late saw their flaws but the truth is, we all have flaws and if the relationship is built on actual love then voicing how you feel with one another is healthy when done sincerely and without malice. Listen to understand one another. Be kind to each other. Kindness is not weakness. If you have been in relationships where kindness is made to feel as a weakness— you are in the wrong relationships with the wrong kind of people. People who take advantage of or abuse the trust of a kind and sincere person are the wrong type of people to be around.

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  3. I just love this. There is no way you won't get something authentic out of sibling conversations and connections. I will also say… This is a great example of sibling dynamics. Joey is soooo the older sibling and Matt bless his heart is def the middle child. Andy classic youngest sibling vibes (I'd know I'm the baby in my family) . ❤️❤️❤️ Love you guys! Excited for more. Especially the Q&A.

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  4. I’ve always wanted to know what it was like to work with Nell Carter and if you had a personal relationship with Nell. You do not speak about her. Why?

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  5. This feels just like a family get together. I grew up with these guys. I know Andy lees (because he was younger in Brotherly Love), but his humor and lightheartedness is the perfect balance to his big brothers’ passion.

    This is so fun! So glad they decided to make this podcast. These guys drip in charisma and chemistry.

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  6. I grew up watching you guys. I'm in between Matt and Andy age wise. Blossom, boy meets world, brotherly love…Mrs doubtfire 😂
    This is such a nostalgic podcast. You guys remind so many of us millennials of our childhood. I hope you all know how special that truly is ☺

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  7. This is my favorite episode…Matt if we sat and I made us a tonic I could sit and talk for hours about food, fda, govt. it’s my living, breathing passion. Omg Dasani and plastic bottles don’t get me started, I got to a fresh local spring or purchase spring water in glass. The same for cooking, bathing, washing face, brushing teeth. Matt Ted Talks me on this topic. I’m so with you.

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  8. I honestly love you all together…you can see that you are all very connected to each other…and I love how you guys get serious and break it off with your brotherly humor….I find myself laughing so much all by myself….this is a really good idea for you all … congrats on your new podcast

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  9. As a middle child who’s full of knowledge & wisdom, I resonate with Mathew wholeheartedly. He sounds like me always trying to educate my family on the food they eat…& my little sister would also laugh as I’m dropping gems 😂

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  10. Bills lots of Bills, he’s got Bills but he can pay em 😂 and he lives behind lots of Gates 🤣😭 boy when I tell you I am in tears! I needed that laugh 🥹🫶🏽 thanks Joey

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  11. "I love everyone, I'm so good. I have no authentic self left and I lie to me.. I cannot trust me at all.. But, I'm good. I'm soo good." 🤣🤣

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  12. I love your sibling silliness! (I’m the oldest of 3 sisters). But I’m on here to tell you all that I enjoy your Brotherly Love Podcast and to let Matt know the reason he’s not happily married is because he hasn’t met my daughter yet! 😊😉
    When you’re in Florida and want to hang out with a cool independent, college educated, hard working, fun-loving young lady just let this Mama know and I’ll make it happen! Lol
    (I’m pretty sure she would be mortified if she knew I was doing this, but it’s part of our secret Parent Protocol Handbook if you haven’t given us a grandchild after 30 then we are allowed to embarrass you at least once a year.) 😂

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