48 thoughts on “Let's Discuss it with Mr. Scoville”
Hello Reese I am one of your fans that listens and rarely comments. I absolutely love you and your channel. I always feel like with you and your followers that I have friends I get to hear from every day. I, like many, do not have friends. I come here every day to have my heart filled. Thank you so much for opening the door and inviting me in❤❤❤
Im not replay. I watched live but was at work. Tommy. Thank you. I heard everything you applied to Reese and her insecurities. It so applies to me. I have been scared in a relationship and having trouble getting over it. Your words are GOLDEN. Thank you
Tommy's right about your Dad. I would like to add that due to the fact that your Dad made you feel special early on (your book) and then totally rejected you and your specialness (gave the book back) could be why you are drawn to older guys specifically.
what a great video Reese I had a alcoholic abusive father that use to beat the crap out of me every day from 5 til 14 and some of the things he called me and said to me should be illegal it really just screws you up for the rest of your life at least it has to me I love your channel Reese it helps me so much so thank you from the bottom of my heart Happy New Year to Huxley and Jeff xx
You were just handed an immediate program – and if there is one thing I have retained from SCN is the results of that without the program actually done – you will not get the intended success. He suggested a letter – sent or not is not the issue here – the action of getting what needs to be done here. If not done it is likely you will just keep hanging onto whatever really needs to be said or written to him. I felt concerned that Tommy off the screen barely 5 minutes- when responding in the chat you said in response to a comment about the need for a letter "I don't want to do that". Possibly reviewing what you "want" to do and/or "should" do should be taken into consideration, The feelings about your dad have been harbored by you for years – maybe it is time to review how holding onto them have "served" you in your actions. Well done on confronting all this. It is only because I wanted to catch Tommy that I saw this video and have "gone outside my lane" with this communication but I felt the need to communicate this.
Dads, you are 100% as important in raising kids as moms. Reese, I wish you had a better dad. Tommy is a very wise man. Reese, I think you're beautiful!
There's one line in "Good Will Hunting" , when Robin Williams repeat over and over; IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT" and finally Will (Matt Damon 's character) gets it, and cries from deep within his heart. The one line in the film always has made me cry becsuse it's truth. To all or any of us who carry pain, guilt, doubt, fear… It's NOT our fault. As Tommy suggested; Journaling, writing letters can be so cathartic. Thank you you Tommy for the important/vital reminder. Thank you Reese for sharing.
It's not even just said as an adult, you say it as a parent. You say I'm a parent and as a parent I can't imagine emotionally hurting my child that way. He depends on me for everything growing up to become a good human being….
Reese, sweetie pie, you are a treasure. Thank you for being you. I HATE what your father said to you. He had no right! I hope he sees what he's done before he departs this earth. Always know, you're wonderful!!
Reese, I have never seen your face red. I did not know that was even possible. You are not the least bit awkward. And… from where I sit you have a TON of friends.
Tommy's analysis of daughter- father rel omitted daughters who are same sex attracted, its his patriarchial bias – that men influence their daughters – straight women- then they won't let a man hit them. Total bs. He is not a scholar of psychology, and a little info can be dangerous or just plain ignorant! I know hundreds of women who had the greatest fathers, and get into abusive relationships. They didn't know abuse existed, it made them unprepared to protect themselves or recognize signs of danger. I have academically studied psychology for decades. Tommy is stating his opinion as though its fact.
I began working with domestic violence and partner abuse survivors in 1980, and what the research proves, is that a dad has little to no influence on female choices in partners IN THIS SPECIFIC demographic to protect them. However, if their father was violent, then a daughter internalizes men are violent, and expects to have to avoid anyone, male or female, person or partner, who uses violence against others, and these females are resiliant because of growing up in environments with dangerous men/women influences.
Another correction to his biased opinions, his assumption implied all upbringings are opposite sex married parents. The research in our "victorian values-based" patriarchial culture, shows that rapidly becoming the exception, not the norm.
Another observation, he has only objectified his wives like trophies for bragging about. Who cares if they were hot "super model" looking or what dudes wanted to do to them, and he brags about their professions. That says nothing about their character and why can't they just be kind, caring, helpful or honest people or him say how big their hearts are for others.
I hope he learns to understand feminist perspective, see his bias and how patriarchial his beliefs are, and how he sounds superficial old school guy with his objectification of women, not being inclusive of everyone, and resorting to shallow bloviating, it would show some personal growth…
I love that Tommy pushes the Journaling and letter writing. I have used it and it is way more helpful than you can imagine. He has a great head on his shoulders when it comes to addressing past trauma/abuse and healing from it.
Reese- Busting a cap goes back to the civil war where the rifles used a percussion cap to ignite the gun power. Apparently if you mix mercury with the right stuff and hit it hard enough you get fire
I still love the idea of a movie night, this other channel i follow does them, they put a movie on in the background and watch it with the chat and talk to the chat
Hello Reese I am one of your fans that listens and rarely comments. I absolutely love you and your channel. I always feel like with you and your followers that I have friends I get to hear from every day. I, like many, do not have friends. I come here every day to have my heart filled. Thank you so much for opening the door and inviting me in❤❤❤
Can I just let you know? This live with you two? Was /is the best I have ever seen. I felt exactly what your face looked like. So so special ❤️🦋👍🏽
Im not replay. I watched live but was at work. Tommy. Thank you. I heard everything you applied to Reese and her insecurities. It so applies to me. I have been scared in a relationship and having trouble getting over it. Your words are GOLDEN. Thank you
You can keep him busy until the cops arrive!!!😂😂😂
❤hahahaha. Budda Stash!
Yes Tommy!! Reese's sperm donor is an absolute A$$Hole!!
Chaz Palmenteri (Sonny) has a great channel!!!!!
Tommy's right about your Dad. I would like to add that due to the fact that your Dad made you feel special early on (your book) and then totally rejected you and your specialness (gave the book back) could be why you are drawn to older guys specifically.
what a great video Reese I had a alcoholic abusive father that use to beat the crap out of me every day from 5 til 14 and some of the things he called me and said to me should be illegal it really just screws you up for the rest of your life at least it has to me I love your channel Reese it helps me so much so thank you from the bottom of my heart Happy New Year to Huxley and Jeff xx
You guys are amazing … I don’t have words how much this live meant .. thank you
You were just handed an immediate program – and if there is one thing I have retained from SCN is the results of that without the program actually done – you will not get the intended success. He suggested a letter – sent or not is not the issue here – the action of getting what needs to be done here. If not done it is likely you will just keep hanging onto whatever really needs to be said or written to him. I felt concerned that Tommy off the screen barely 5 minutes- when responding in the chat you said in response to a comment about the need for a letter "I don't want to do that". Possibly reviewing what you "want" to do and/or "should" do should be taken into consideration, The feelings about your dad have been harbored by you for years – maybe it is time to review how holding onto them have "served" you in your actions. Well done on confronting all this.
It is only because I wanted to catch Tommy that I saw this video and have "gone outside my lane" with this communication but I felt the need to communicate this.
MAD RESPECT for what Tommy said! 🙌 I cannot wait for him to come back to the your channel! You're both beautiful souls!
true friendship love you two so much ❤
Dads, you are 100% as important in raising kids as moms. Reese, I wish you had a better dad. Tommy is a very wise man. Reese, I think you're beautiful!
Also, have you ever shared your skin care routine?
Reese and Tommy together always makes for a fantastic watch.
I came over via Tommy and I like you Reese. 💜😎
I really can't seem to find the words to express how this made me feel. I can tell you that I was moved to tears and felt that so deeply.
😭 Tommy, that was SO powerful!! Reese, listen to him. I don't even know what else to say. Except, you're right, it WAS very special.
There's one line in "Good Will Hunting" , when Robin Williams repeat over and over; IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT" and finally Will (Matt Damon 's character) gets it, and cries from deep within his heart. The one line in the film always has made me cry becsuse it's truth.
To all or any of us who carry pain, guilt, doubt, fear…
It's NOT our fault. As Tommy suggested; Journaling, writing letters can be so cathartic. Thank you you Tommy for the important/vital reminder. Thank you Reese for sharing.
Replay crew here, Tommy is a gift. His words are wisdom from truth and heart. Take them in. I did 💜
It's not even just said as an adult, you say it as a parent. You say I'm a parent and as a parent I can't imagine emotionally hurting my child that way. He depends on me for everything growing up to become a good human being….
Reese, sweetie pie, you are a treasure. Thank you for being you. I HATE what your father said to you. He had no right! I hope he sees what he's done before he departs this earth. Always know, you're wonderful!!
That was awesome Reese. I'm glad you were open to what he had to say. 💗💗💗
I didn't catch the live from Wednesday I'm behind this week but I'm glad this helped.
I think you look great. You've got great skin and you can see that even better with the new computer/camera.
Reese, I have never seen your face red. I did not know that was even possible. You are not the least bit awkward. And… from where I sit you have a TON of friends.
Other people's personality failures, are not your truths.
Don't need electrolytes unless your running marathons.
You two together have such a great chemistry. Loved listening to this. All my love Ms Reese! You are loved. ❤
Be kind to the woman in the mirror
Now I have to watch The Town! Loved that movie too. You should catch "The Accountant" too, Reese.
Tommy's analysis of daughter- father rel omitted daughters who are same sex attracted, its his patriarchial bias – that men influence their daughters – straight women- then they won't let a man hit them. Total bs. He is not a scholar of psychology, and a little info can be dangerous or just plain ignorant! I know hundreds of women who had the greatest fathers, and get into abusive relationships. They didn't know abuse existed, it made them unprepared to protect themselves or recognize signs of danger. I have academically studied psychology for decades. Tommy is stating his opinion as though its fact.
I began working with domestic violence and partner abuse survivors in 1980, and what the research proves, is that a dad has little to no influence on female choices in partners IN THIS SPECIFIC demographic to protect them. However, if their father was violent, then a daughter internalizes men are violent, and expects to have to avoid anyone, male or female, person or partner, who uses violence against others, and these females are resiliant because of growing up in environments with dangerous men/women influences.
Another correction to his biased opinions, his assumption implied all upbringings are opposite sex married parents. The research in our "victorian values-based" patriarchial culture, shows that rapidly becoming the exception, not the norm.
Another observation, he has only objectified his wives like trophies for bragging about. Who cares if they were
hot "super model" looking or what dudes wanted to do to them, and he brags about their professions. That says nothing about their character and why can't they just be kind, caring, helpful or honest people or him say how big their hearts are for others.
I hope he learns to understand feminist perspective, see his bias and how patriarchial his beliefs are, and how he sounds superficial old school guy with his objectification of women, not being inclusive of everyone, and resorting to shallow bloviating, it would show some personal growth…
You guys make me laugh. Thanks
I love that Tommy pushes the Journaling and letter writing. I have used it and it is way more helpful than you can imagine. He has a great head on his shoulders when it comes to addressing past trauma/abuse and healing from it.
Wow, I needed to hear this convo. More Tommy and Reece collabs! You are gorgeous Reece, never doubt it ❤️
Thank you both for opening up the topic about fathers. It’s really helpful. Love you both ❤
Reese- Busting a cap goes back to the civil war where the rifles used a percussion cap to ignite the gun power. Apparently if you mix mercury with the right stuff and hit it hard enough you get fire
Reese also you look FANTASTIC. You and my wife have that in common… That and your empathic bad asses
So thankful for this video……………healing…. so much healing energy and a wealth of knowledge. 2024 healing time
I still love the idea of a movie night, this other channel i follow does them, they put a movie on in the background and watch it with the chat and talk to the chat
Tommy's talk about Dads is spot on.
“You’re cat should shave about 4 lbs off” 😂😂
My cat once ripped open a package of vegan turkey jerky, and chewed it all over the floor. It was "Veggie Deli" brand.
Never seen Reece so quiet 😂❤xxxxxxx
Loving Fred for the outro too ❤ xx
I needed to hear what Tommy said… Made me ball like a baby.❤ Love you both. P.s SEND THE LETTER
Xena is way cooler than Xenu!