When people see the real you, they leave
I know that is a tough pill to swallow.
Yes, we give and give to others, and we are amazing listeners and supporters, AND you could also be carrying a lot of residue from the past that might be ruining your relationships.
Past residue looks like the following:
1. Not addressing how you truly felt about being raised in your household. Did you feel safe? Were you told that you were special? Did someone tell you they love you regularly? Did you get support and help when you asked, etc.
2. The desire to control everything.
3. Unresolved trauma that is playing out in your relationships, causing you not to trust others or to have barriers versus boundaries.
It is time for you to heal. I am hosting a 4 week course where I will support you in learning how to use your pain to help you heal, explore who you truly are outside or your pain, and learn how to find your light in broken pieces.
Click the link in my bio NOW!
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