Some of my recent personal examples of exposed sadistic super-egos are:
Susan Gantt of SCT (Systems Centered Theory) https://www.systemscentered.com/
Karen S, Rose M, and Shelton S of Median Group (Patrick De Mare – group psychotherapy)
Daniel Papero of Bowen Theory https://www.thebowencenter.org/faculty-bios/daniel-papero
excerpted from https://youtu.be/8lxEH1Hslmc
Visceral Gravitas Community zoom group 2/09/23
Community discussion forum https://www.visceralgravitas.com
transcript:
when someone has a super ego defense
and it becomes a pathology
the super ego will kill anything to stay in power
because the super ego has rejected your true self
it’s rejected your destructive side
or it’s taken it over
so you have unintegrated Killer Instinct, Death Drive
you’ve rejected it, it’s gone into your Shadow
then your super ego has taken that
as the the whip
as the sadistic side
so exposing the super ego to containment failure means that whoever is the trigger is the target of murder
that’s
and if you have Professional super ego powerlords, overlords, therapists
that means their super ego have even more murderous drive
not uncommon
The wounded side of the Healer has this masochistic dark side, that if you trigger the wrong side of it … You’re the perceived reality opener, or evoking shame in them,
they have no conscience
they will go for your throat,
that’s probably super common
source
Example of Susan Gantt's academic super-ego pathology – https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxO3TWAciPZNrhZzToRBU3EDv68YURgcDy
https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxjKPZz_w4Bu699Q4Ar2wrPSsBPGHl0rjO
Probably it's safer to move out of the way before she comes for your throat. You wanna go ahead and win the argument, be my guest.
I was harmed by therapy .
I went to try emdr for complex trauma and was left feeling everything I went in for
-Re-shamed
– rejected/dismissed when expressed vulnerability
-pathologized
-core wounds came up with zero repair
– the course of treatment was directed by therapist, to do x,y and z before attempting for best results(medication )which I understood to a degree but felt very directive .
– the male therapist vibe was so closed off that I feel any therapeutic benefit was impossible due to him being completely analytical, which could be normal for younger psychotherapist. I left being abandoned and feeling too much /broken and hopeless.
I found a developmental psychologist who may be more effective in ACEs
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