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As-salam-ulakum I think this is one of the most important aspects for us men looking to start this journey
I used to think that something was wrong with me for desiring other women. I was taught wrong. I'm glad to be in the process of unlearning the lessons of Western society.
Even if he did, he would not be true to his natural self. Man’s level of testosterone can be quite high particularly in our “times”, so taking his wife’s permission would be pointless, cuz he would either start to have a certain hatted towards his first wife or he would sleep around, do it anyway.
SubhanAllah! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته I think some men don't have a backbone at all. Their wife is running their life as far as polygyny is concerned. Who's really in charge of the household anyway?? Coach Nazir is right! A lot of men do want multiple wives, it's in their nature! but are afraid to act or say something. You men out there, stop lying to yourselves/ your wife about how you really feel. May الله give men the ability to be honest with themselves and stop making up excuses! اللهم امين 🧕👳🧕
The men are to leaded the families not the women. The Most High is the man headed.
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While it is true that the husband in Islam does not require his wife’s permission however,she is not in agreement or choose not to ride along this is her decision. Just because he wants to do it, doesn’t mean his wife will choose to be a participant. The success of polygny depends upon ALL those who participate, it ultimately requires the consent of all adults as without that it falls apart. May Allah guide us all to the best understanding and may Allah reward you for opening up your lives and sharing with others. Ameen
Every woman deserves a husband and every man has a duty to a marriage. Brother you've done one of the most important thing in your religion.
To keep it real don't even ask to have sex but accept a serious rejection.
While no one can say what is right or wrong for each family, how is it right for a husband to marry another wife without the knowledge of his existing spouse(s). If a man really respects and loves his wife he would consider the impact on her and his existing family and not marry another woman in secret.
Based on earlier videos, it seems like The Coach was long married to his subsequent wife before his first wife knew of the situation. Then it became “I don’t need permission…because I am the man…”
Financial and emotional stability is most important. Am
Islam is so much more than polygamy and men banging their chests about how powerful and important they are in their family dynamic.