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Hey Owen!
The problem for me is this:
I have a lot of success with women. And there are a lot of girls, where I feel like the bachelor, who can choose. But this girls are not making me happy. After ***** them I'm not interested anymore.
The girls, that push my buttons and make my feel I'm in heaven… With them I cannot fake being busy. I would even go buying groceries with them. π
And you guess what happens…
My Datinglife is like this: ππ»ββοΈ<- ππ»ββοΈ <-ππ½ββοΈ… And nobody actually meets happily.
Sorry for my bad english. I'm from germany.
Love your work!
Itβs crazy how so many ppl donβt understand the power of front end vs back end optimization. Pure gold in these videos!!! π―π₯π₯
If a girl doesn't value short term mating aka fun and joy, she will look at what physical attributes as value proposition you can offer to her. This is esp true if you look at online dating often times higher "quality" females are not keen to meet up with guys who don't have photos portraying their rich lifestyle. I've had countless dates being flaked without follow ups, or it can also be she seriously is not looking for farkboy vibe (relatability issue)
This is as cruel as it gets, but you can always meet some cool and fit girls irl
One thing here though – when you talk about "front-end optimization", a lot of that is actually a kind of inner game, since what you're doing is cultivating internal self-value, self-love, self-appreciation and then having that reflect itself in the world and social interactions. When you love and value yourself, your time, you are present, live your best life, you are going for inner and spiritual freedom, you are pursuing your passions and purpose…etc. – that is what both in my opinion and experience gives you that vibe of valuing yourself and having your time become valuable, while others are then wanting to enter into your reality.
So in that sense, isn't that still back-end optimization, since it's just inner game (well not just inner game, but also being more social and pursuing your best life – which still kind of doesn't seem front-end to me) presenting itself on the "front-end"? I guess it's just semantics ultimately, but I'd argue that this is still "back-end", just a different kind of "back-end" that is more visible socially and in interactions with people. You can fake this, but it's much better if it's actually genuine – as in, you genuinely value and love yourself (and by proxy – your own time). These things are primarily felt energetically, it's not something you can really fake effectively for long I think (plus it's just inauthentic if you do, then it's better to just authentically be needy lol).
But perhaps I'm misunderstanding and by "front-end", you just basically mean social skills and how everything (internal and external) represents itself in social interactions.
I can see this, because this has been happening for me immensely with friends in the past years, where I now have a huge amount of amazing friends and social connections, which all love me (and I love them) and want to be in my reality. My time has also become more scarce because of this, plus I don't really NEED any particular person as much anymore.
This has happened to me with women to an extent, but a significantly smaller extent as unfortunately I still have some neediness in relation to women, so I tend to perhaps overvalue romantic relationships and connections and sometimes see myself as needing women and romantic connections more than they feel like they need my presence.
Anyway, thanks for the video Owen, all the best to you and anyone else reading this π
That shirt Owen π₯
If Julian hits Belgium, i will be there!
The goat β€
I did a tour of the US as a Magic Mike dancer at the beginning of this year, and that felt like a glimpse of what infinite abundance in life would be like.
As someone who followed RSD for years, I went from having no game whatsoever to building a vibrant social life. I'm over the moon for the character I've developed and the experiences I've had… but none of it compares to or prepared me for what I experienced on that tour.
Girls begging to come back to your room… wives, girlfriends, mothers, black, white, asian, fit, tall, young, old, everything. Women thanking you for bedding them, mothers offering their daughters to you for the night because it's her birthday, the things they let you do them on stage, the things they were fighting to do to you in the venue, and being shocked at how attractive a lot of these women were who were behaving like this.
It wouldn't be uncommon for dancers to sleep with a different woman(women) every day of the week when you're on the road, if that's what you're focused on anyway. It's shallow and terrifyingly fast-paced, but if bodies is what someone was after rather than intimacy… exotic dancing as a man is 100% the way to go. The social proof you get as a performer is something you'd have to see or experience to believe.
I have a 2 part method to attraction: 1. Having your shit together 2. Alpha (this has nothing to do with other people). Alpha, the one that needs to be explained, is easily shown that alpha males & females spend $ the same way. Girls can get money for whatever they want, if they don't have the ability to get it, they don't want to. Alpha males also have this. It creates female orbiters. I'm in a relationship tho so i don't approach.
Missed you!!!
You should call it: 'PROJECT HOLLYWOOD' LOL
I recently reread Michelle Langley's 2005 book "Women's Infidelity". Now im starting to reread "Women's Infidelity 2" (2008) which fully articulated her research.
These books are MUST READS for any man considering a committed relationship today.
One of Langley's points is this: Whenever a woman has short-term fun with a man – not for the sake of "in the moment" fun and connection (for its own sake) – but rather, as a tactic to gain commitment over the long-term – the relationship always eventually implodes over the long-term.
You can see it in the eyes where they at. The eyes must be in allignment with the demeneur and vibe as well. Great video!
Owen can you briefly unprivate those livestreams you did briefly going over dating topics a year or so back. I want to watch them again before you quit dating topics forever.
hot chicks go shoppin @ 4 pm friday then out to eat
Fuck if Iβm signing up tomorrow
Checking in bossπ₯π―
Hey Owen, just like Julian is in Europe, is there anyone on your level in Australia for me to go to their life events?
Lol videos always come at the right time, why is that?
Owen, thank you so much. This video really helped me. Because lately I was struggling trying to understand why I had nice interactions with women, they are showing a lot of interests in me at the beginning. Yet, at some point between the first date and a few dates , they suddenly go " too busy to meet " / " Yea Id love to, but rn Im too busy, as soon as im available ill get back to you…"
It is because I give this vibe where I seem too available, too " Oh I'm a nice guy, we can do whatever, whenever…".