Have you ever wondered why that person isn’t respecting your boundaries?
Perhaps you think you need to find a better way to communicate them or maybe you believe that there are just some people that are boundary proof.
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Spot on 👍
I like the way you explained this. AHA moment for me. God Bless you Kris. I've been blessed by your videos.
I've set some boundaries but some people don't get it. At the moment this woman popped back up and I have ignored her, told her to go away etc. She seems to think she can yell at me, belittle me and accuse me. I found a group of people I was comfortable with and then she shows up.
I just need support so I listen to you. Thanks.
This so good!!! Thank you!
This was so on time for me! I have something going on this weekend with the family member of mine that constantly breaks my boundaries along with my children’s. 😣 Blessings to you Kris 🕊️
Funny, I'm driving to purchase a vehicle while listening to this… I should Have seen if you would come along and help 😂😂😂… Great video and have definitely goofed on maintaining boundaries in my life in certain instances. It's been said, our greatest strengths are also our greatest weaknesses. The desire to show mercy and compassion allows others to cross lines that should not he crossed. It's hard to find the balance.
Thank you SO much Kris! I appreciate your videos so much. So informative, practical, and loving. ❤
Kris, I set boundaries, but the person doesn't respond to them, nor respect them. Over and over again. They will even twist it and go further into their narcissistic manipulation and come out "smelling like a rose", especially with other people. Being firm can help in certain situations, but setting boundaries is exactly what the narc doesn't want at all! It only makes that person do "his thing" even more. For me, it is a "no win" situation. He almost always wins in a greater way, even if I win a little bit. I'm exhausted and can't accomplish what I need to do in the relationship. March 13th is our 25th wedding anniversary. I'm not sure I can make it past that, to be honest.
It's my job to enforce my boundaries. I have to love and respect myself enough to hold the hard line, regardless of how my emotions are manipulated or triggered. Learned this late in the game but it was well worth learning. Like being forced to watch a 15 minute Dr Gundry commercial to watch your video. Nope. Hard pass.
Wow, can you create a video on what boundaries we as Christians must have. New subbie here
My need was (and is) that the person stops asking me for money due to a seemingly monthly emergency they have that always comes up. I've stuck to my guns this last time though, and even though they keep pushing for me to give them money for an emergency, I keep reminding them that I have financial things I need to take care of for myself and family, and cannot help them this time. As far as I'm concerned, I won't be able to help them ever again since their asking never seems to end. Let them find another way, and I pray for them that they will find it.
How can I deal with narcissistic parents which at this moment I live with them I was there caregivers I want to have peace but there things that they do that makes me want to leave and go no contact how can I honor them like the scripture says
As I say before I say it again. You are blessed by God's wisdom. Keep me in your prayers. God bless you my dear Kris. Amen.
This was timely. My daughter just called and wanted a cab from the mental health unit and to come to my house. I said no, you need to go to rehab first.
She hung up on me and called a friend of hers who had told me she shouldn't come home but go to rehab. We got in agreement – or so I thought. He's picking her up right now and taking her to his house. He had told me he wouldn't let her back until she went to rehab. So much for his boundaries. He keeps moving them. So I will stand firm and not let her here until she goes to rehab. I'm actually relieved because she was doing meth and is super paranoid and argumentative. Goes through all my stuff constantly, too. Thinks I'm hiding something because she's so paranoid. The last time she stayed with me I didn't think I could stand another day of it and then she left. I was so glad. Peace returned to my house.
Great teaching today❤
Wow, I didn't even think that I've been so programmed to fall for these tactics, time is now to stop letting it go on. And start looking out for my needs to be meet by God first and not by myself or my own will. Thank you once again for helping all of us that's just been programmed to think we don't deserve better or even the time to seek it, thanks to you IM MAKING TIME IN MY LIFE TO SEEK THESE NEEDS OVER MY WANTS. Praying for discernment and direction 🙏 😊
We apreciate you sister…not a lot like you on the internet,to tell the truth as it is..
great point
We call it, Non-Negotiables. I’m better than breadcrumbs.
YOu are speaking about what covert religious narcissists wouldn't do, respect boundaries.
My threats were hollow until one day I blocked. BOOM! It was over. He was blocked. Man shoes put on the front porch because the boundary breaker would just stop by. It's been 2 years no contact now.