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Kevin passed the baton to you bro. Good job running with it. 🏃♂️
This is why I can’t handle women. They just cannot take accountability for their actions in every situation. Honestly why more level headed women are friends with gay men. At least they are loyal and they support your highs not just fuel your lows.
The chick on here, crying it should be me, getting married, is gonna be a pump n dump, forever, because who wants to keep someone else's ex, n HIS KID'S, that's a world of drama, 1 baby daddy issues, n his family, then kids that don't respect you, because you're banging there mother, n you're not there father, then it's the 304, help me pay for my hoe ish life style, then there's the you come last on the priority list, but first on the pay my bills n my kid's list,🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 NOOOOOO 🖕 THAT 🐎💩….
I had a time when a guy called the woman I was with a bitch. She did the typical woman thing and turned to me. I looked her straight in the eye and said: "stop being a bitch". Needless to say, wasn't at all what she was expecting. But she needed someone to pull her up short, because she WAS being a biatch. That was the end of a bad relationship.
That hits hard to know your mother doesn't want you but out of spite will not let your father be a father out of spite. The person that hurts the most is the child and the future children if they have any.
I came across a mother like that on the bus who clearly hated her teenage son and seemingly treated her daughter better than him. She was embarrassing her son him saying he's just like his father etc. and venom that came out her mouth made me scared. And she wasn't even talking to me. I could tell once he became of age he'd leave the home and she never see him again. Idk if there are statistics for these kinds of mothers but its prevalent enough to where folks can't say it's a small number.
Point of these stories here today….EVERYDAY, is that wamen are self centered, hypocrites and unable of ANY kind of logical thoughts….aka DUMB B!TCHES! Argue with me if you dare.
For the final ladyish woman. I wonder why he left. What was happening that was so bad that caused that. Sounds like the piecemeal story to me
Marry before you carry 💯, absolutely! If marriage is truly your end goal, then this should be no issue to uphold. If you find yourself having trouble finding someone to settle down with then that is a clear indication something internal needs to be worked on and self- accountability needs to happen before you get your desired outcome. Please don't just bring children into broken homes to pass on generational curses. Great video!
My Mother was the biggest “Deadbeat” b*tch on planet earth but decided to blame my Dad for a 24 year absence!!!! She abandoned or threw away 3 children before me!!!
There are always two sides or more to a story…
No, it's not a small percentage of females doing this. This is all too common in the community. How that girl fixed her mouth to say it is a small percentage is the delusion. Delusion amongst females is extremely common as well.
You forgot C get them legitimatize and do joint custody…… 💪🏾💪🏾
The last woman, I find it rather disturbing that someone could say the words "I'm so happy for her" and in the same breath say "Why couldn't it be me". Really? Your last words completely obliterates the idea that you were 'happy' for the person. If you were truly HAPPY for them, you would never think nor utter the latter words.
It would be great to hear his side. I don’t feel sorry for her. All a woman has to do is go in front of a camera and cry and she will get sympathy (from other women). It’s too easy to play victim as a woman on social media. and let’s be honest here, she’s a pretty woman, It’s NO WAY the father of her child just up and left her one day because he’s just that type of dude. NO WAY.
Some men don’t show their abusive side till later in the relationship he can be the best man in the world in the beginning but some men don’t show they true colors until he comfortable around a woman besides that women do pick dead beats and know they are dead beats from the gate which is idiotic, but let’s not forget the ladies who thought they were with decent men
NEVER FORGET….6mo ago today we lost KEVIN SAMUELS 💯🙏😢R.I.P. TO THE G.O.A.T.!! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED! Thank JESUS we have so much material that the LEGEND LEFT TO EDUCATE THE FUTURE GENERATIONS💯🙏
I like what the brutha at 3:40 was saying. I avoided loud mouth women. I've seen them almost get the man with them killed! I think we men have an innate understanding of the capacity for violence that other men have. Some women and some men with mental health issues, simply don't. I'm reminded of Charlie Murphy's story of his friend.
Great story 😅 it's on YouTube.
Look under, "I want more!"🤕
I wish my twins father would want to be in all his kids he's had lives. Because I definitely wouldn't mind letting him step up. 😔
As a woman…it’s hard to believe women because I always hear the same type of story too much it’s repetitive and makes you think what really happened
false statement – "Child custody following divorce of the parents is to be decided according to the best interests of the child. The law directs that mothers and fathers be treated equally. Neither parent has an automatic preference for custody of children based on the sex of the parent." It is toxic for either parent to prevent the other from being in the child's life, but the law treats you fair and equal. (personal experience)
He is speaking facts.. I personally have friends/ family members that is either married or in a relationship with the type of women that enjoys using their kids as leverage. These women cheated on their men and when these men moved on and is in a successful/healthy relationship, the ex still wants to make them miserable. These men love their kids and would give their last. However, dealing with SPITEFUL, EVIL, SELFISH women hurts not only the men who wants to be in their children’s life… it hurts the CHILDREN more!!! It’s sad and anyone who has an excuse for this behavior is catastrophic to society.
I must say, when we kicked God out of schools, kicked Christianity to the curb and other than infidelity started divorcing for "irreconcilable differences" kids were going to get damaged. Marriage under God's rules says "Work it out. Stop your SELFISHNESS and honor me and each other" (PP). When you decide to have children or if you and she get pregnant, you GIVE UP YOUR PARTY rights son. I married a single mom, worked my nubs off to give this step son, fine clothes, a car, an education on what it was to be a MAN. He FLOURISHED. He started working out, he started having the girls chase him, he was a good Christian kid (I was a youth minister when I married his mom who had him alone for 9 years with no father, his father died when he was 5) and he actually by Gods hands built our youth group. Just 3 years later, his mother cheats (My sister busted her and I busted her) with the dude she left before she met me!!! This lost soul cheated her out of 4K, told her he had cancer to get that money, never invested in her son and she ends up getting with him. WOW. It WRECKED Me, Derrick and broke a good home. I was not controlling, abusive or mean. When we tell the Creator of the universe that we will be our OWN authority, there is no reason to WORK towards building a super bond. Meaning you know what she loves, she knows how to please you, you both know that tough times take tough partners and guess what? Two bound people don't make "My personal happiness" their number one goal. You can say all you want about no God, but when people were trained in Christianity, they took their vows with dead serious commitment, marriages lasted. Kids didnt throw temper tantrums in stores, they didn't cut themselves, they didn't get pumped full of Ritalyn, they didn't need daycare because a great woman and a great man who loved God ran that home. It was loving, disciplined, full of safety and security and it produced the GREATEST generation (They built this country!!!), but we erased divine wisdom from our playbook and did it WILFULLY. That is when God pulls His hands off and lets sin have its consequences. I had a wise young man at work ask me at work "What are your top three pieces of advice you can give me?". 1. Get Jesus in your life and keep Him there. 2. Act like your 60 when you're 16 and you will live life like a 16 year old when your're 60. 3. Buy at least 20 bucks a week in silver until you retire. Sorry for the novelette men and ladies, but it haad to be said.
Oh holy hell, do I have a story. When I was five, after my parents had been divorced about a year and a half, my mom went after my dad for more money for child support, and threatened to expose him because he was cohabitating with a female to whom he was not married, which was a violation of the code of conduct for his job at the time. My dad made the point that if she gets him fired, there will be zero money, as she gets paid 'cause he has a job. I don't fault him for giving up all parental authority as a way to protect himself. My mother threatened him with the complete destruction of his life; he had no choice.
I would rather have a sane, nonwoke brainwashed gay couple to raise a child than a single mother. You can’t call a dad a deadbeat when he’s trying tooth and nail to be in the child’s life yet some mothers will use the child as blackmail
Ju from the DailyRapUpCrew was speaking facts 💯
@7:53 Trust that he gave her every chance to not drive him crazy. She likes what she sees in the mirror, thinks she's the prize, and refused to do any self improvement or take any accountability for arguments. She used her appearance to try to lock down a guy with options and forgot that fatherless homes are the new normal and no man feels trapped by that baby. Now baby daddy is exercising those options. Who knew? Boo hoo
Can we bring the old outro music back or at least try something different?
3:29…..We Brothas have a phrase for that; it's called, "STOCKHOLM SYNDROME SEEKER", (I know, I know, I added the last word on there for dramatic effect, but, you all get my point across here, fellas. Stay Cool. Stay Smart).
Small percentage???
Your a queen girl! Your a beautiful woman and your man will come! Don't give up girl! 😭🤣😂 This is what she was looking for posting that video. Validation and attention from the womansphere.
No matter how much I watch MTR I just always like this guy's comedic monologues 🤣✊✊✊
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Ditto for women its the same men or women its all about who is willing to pay & fight through the courts
my mother did the same shit..ran from my father until by the time he found me i was a broken street kid……i often think about how things might have been but i am ok now and happy enough
Im jealous of James!!! (Sniff sniff) I ain’t cryin punk! Im sayin….. i married his baby mama….. I can’t stand mine…… i wish i could marry my girl im with now but im havin seconds thoughts…..
Says no man ever….
In Chicago alot of gang wars going on behind females
I agree… Great vid..
The first Brothers absolutely correct I know for sure. Because my ex when we got divorced the judge told her that I hadn't done anything wrong because she wanted me to not be able to see the kids. But the judge said he hasn't done anything wrong that deserves him not having the ability to see his kid but because she didn't get away in court after that she took my kids and she hid them. The first time she hit him I was still in the military and I was able to go to Jack to judge advocate court and they told her that if she didn't tell me where the kids were that he was going to call the FBI and consider them kidnapped and going to have her put in jail so she told me. But then after I got the service she took the kids and she hit them again and every time I was trying to see them or get my visitation rights they would never available. Then I found out later from the kids as they got older that they were ordered not right they could not write all the phones are blocked and I could not get in contact with him. And just like the whole said about the court system the court system favored the mom no matter what happened so I couldn't even get it to go in court because it was hope why don't you come here and make it easy for her and all this stuff you got ridiculous so I didn't get to be with my kids and I've got her daughter today that basically hates me because I wasn't there blinds me for not being there I'm like it's not that some my son he said down with me and found out what actually happened. And I broke down and cried because to hear my son who just got married to all the separation almost done said that I understand that brought tears to my eyes and daughter. And I just like the court system for what they did and I don't really like her for what she did either so he's right women they do dog man out because of children
In the modern dating scene, it’s GUARANTEED you’ll be fighting against some false allegations, gentlemen.
Stop womanipulating, woman. 😁😁
Fundamental fact, it's the women that screw up the Father's opportunity to be there for their child, I'm so glad that I have custody of my child 🙂
I have realized that the Internet is the emotional tampon of many whiney women…they feel it sucks in all of their blabbering!
First clip, My ex did this I now have to pay a fee each month to see my child because I had to take her to court and the whole time I was treated by the courts as a deadbeat pos
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Know who you lay with These dead beat women/men exhibited red flags 🚩 but they were ignored I don’t have much sympathy for those who put themselves in these predicaments So do better
Sometimes it's not even what "his" side of the story was but more along the line she laid down with chad and he does what he does best… moves on to the next chick. Women better ask themselves a very simple question, how many baby mommas does the guy have and how much do he visits them, contributes to the child's guidance, and how much of an effort he makes to support them or is it welfare or forced child support (what I mean by this, he pays the support and doesn't nothing else because he doesn't want too)? Many of these single mothers are picking chads, they see the wake of his destruction in the form or baby momma drama and not really being there for the kid yet these women continue to lay with him thinking they can change him… they can… they upped his baby momma count up.
3:00 wow the hate