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I am about to give up! I did actually reflect very hard about a week and realised so much. I talked to a avoidant friend to understand distancing behaviour and fear of vulnerability. I realised what I could change and did already a lot. But if I get stonewalled as I already give a lot of space, I ask myself now why am I not moving on. I guess I already did. Next step would be just date again. But there is one more meeting with them. I have zero expectation.
Coach Alexis, will this method work after a bad breakup if they are in a serious relationship (it seems) with someone else?
I did everything from your video. Not working. The problem is we are friend now, so he has no pressure, he is free, he starts to open up, so our talks are better so I am less anxious. And it happend before, we had times when we were in a relationship and times when we were just friends. The result is always the same. Friends- he is cool, opening up, talkative, flirty, I have what I need. Im more secure now. Relationship means problems, pressure, deactivation, "I am not good enough" and disappearing. And it is in his head, I dont want more when we are in relationship, he is imagining I want more đŸ˜¢
And I did, he started to open up, I was listening, I was not pushing, just showing that I am here and I am not mad at him, he started to tell me more and more to just disappear right after again đŸ¤· with no reason, he asked question I answered, nothing emotional and he didnt reply.