Don’t “declare personal pronouns.” It makes you sound stupid and self-obsessed.
I don’t ask you to cater to my weirdnesses and personal eccentricities. Don’t try to impose that on me, or anyone else. That’s common courtesy 101.
I mean, good heavens! It’s difficult enough keeping proper track of names and faces, let alone catering to YOUR demand that I twist my language all around for you!
So, no, I won’t do it. And 99.9% of all people you meet outside your friend group are all thinking exactly the same as I am… regardless of whether they tell you.
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