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op your sister is your mothers child and she still love she did not damage your mothers reputation and your mother do not understand how deep this betrayal went because you did not press charges now the snake came back to finish you off because she needs something do not let her in the trash took it self out do not go pick it up again and bring it in it smells bad and will make your life a waste land this time you will not recover you have much, much, more to loose NTAH you said you can go for the rest of your life without speaking to her you do not owe her your time or accepting or rejecting apologies it is just empty words to get what she wants . no no no do not speak to her let it go i know the how it is you are better off
First story: For any relatives who take Aunt's side, send them deuteronomy 25-4 in which ever translation is common with them, then tell them the whole story of what she did. If they still complain, block them.
Sharing the same DNA doesn't make you family, just related. I have a younger (both in our 50's) delusional, toxic sister who I've finally cut out of my life completely more than 3 years ago. This is the best option for my sanity and her safety. Until, things like this occur.
It SUCKS when no responses are included!
Wouldn't it be great to pay the rent in "exposure"?
#1 your aunt is a stingy POS and you need to post the story on SM so everyone that knows her can know what a stingy POS she is. hopefully you have saved texts…
"Feel free to eat the leftovers, dont expect much though"…oh, you treat me worse than the family dog and still expect favors from me eh?, No, just No and bye.
Only Karens pay in exposure.
Look at the crowning idiocy. Aunt hadn't budgeted for a photographer. OP was never going to be paid even the reduced rate
1:00)Mild is not a word that I would use to describe the aunt. She is a major league MISER. Skinflint. Entitled. Cheapskate.
A NUMBER TEN CHEAP CHARLEY.
10:22)It appears that the older sister is a 37 year old grandmother. Why is the victim always expected to make amends. It might have been better if the poster changed jobs. Maybe in another city.
your first mistake was not putting down in writing what exactly you are providing … discounted services and final costs as well as what and you expect from her end. As a professional photographer you need to become a little more sophisticated in how you conduct your business.
Story 1: That'll teach OP to keep a very strict professional attitude for his services: no family/friends discounts, no family/friends anything while you're working. If you're there as family who likes to take pretty pretty pickes, great. You're a guest, you're part of the celebration. But if you are working, you are a professional. The customer has a right to demand certain expectations, you have the right to be treated respectfully and PAID in full. NOTHING in between, ever. But don;t worry, OP, you'll learn. You're not there to be liked by aunts and their neighbors and their puppies, you're there to work.
Don’t ever do work for family they will fuck you over in the end
Did you miss the part where she said she hadn’t budgeted for a photographer? No money for the photographer. Your aunt would have bullied you to end up paying nothing for your services
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Sheeeesh, that aunt is a piece of work. When my wife and I got married we were lucky to get my stepbrother's fiancee as our photographer, and we made damn sure to pay her and include her as a guest. She's not even doing it full time anymore, so we realised it was a huge favour to us that she agreed, and it really helped us keep our wedding and budget small.
And the pictures came out great!
Treat your photographers right! Especially family!
She wouldn't get a single pic. I wouldn't be there.
Offer to do the shoot but at the standard price and it does not include any of the extras. Include the entire family in exactly what happened and how you offer to rectify it.
Story 3: Believe one's actions not their words! Keep toxic people out of your life, especially family as they will drain you in various for forms- emotionally, physically and financially.
Not only nta but hell no nta people take advantage then try to deflect on others ain't that the shitt
1st story. NTA absolutely not the A hole. OP you were already doing HER a massive favor, for a very discounted price, it is not your fault nor was it your job to budget for what she neglected to. because she was too stingy. She took complete advantage of you, with absolutely no appreciation for you. Her requests went beyond unreasonable and her complete lack of consideration was ridiculous. You are right for cutting her off. Narcissist are completely toxic and you are better off with out that in your life.
I understand how it feels to have only negative memories of my childhood with my own mother while my little brother is like the one in the story. Sadly my mother is also going though a health issue due to doctors being blind and brushing things off as "female histerics" but no its actual spinal cord issues and fluid building on the brain. Two stint surgeries in 6 months and now shes suffering from mini strokes and needs a thied surgery. Havent had a single word heard from my brother
"The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them." —Denis Waitley
Tell them you do free pics of the grooms divorce party
Story 3: NTA It is perfectly fine to forgive, but for God's sake, she could have ruined your career and your life. Forgive, but do not ever forget, and do not ever give her a second chance to do it or something worse, again.
Charge her full price
The healthcare worker sister kinda glossed over the fact that she started the slander first. Funny how trying to destroy her sister’s business seems to be trivial in her story.
Don’t start a fight and there won’t be a fight.
She wanted to save money….. but lost much much more.
NTA.
Aunt is a witch. However, I think OP is still young, he needs to learn the value of saying 'no' to unusual requests that aren't part of photography even for family. Had he done this at the beginning when she started assigning him other duties, she might have not pulled her crap. Also, even if it is family there should be a contract. In fact,, there should be a contract for family. How long he will be at the wedding/ reception, how many breaks, being fed, water or libations of some sort for him and any assistants, etc. Any breaches of the contract will void said contract. There is other stuff that should be included but I am just mainly concerned with the wedding. He also should get a non-refundable deposit, even from family.