I gave my husband permission to be with another woman because I could not give him a child | LNN



If there is something we can’t take away from Susan, it’s her ability to make herself happy without a husband or children

On this episode of LNS, she tells us why she no longer desires to have children, losing her marriage due to infertility and other issues and why a woman should never be definedby her ability to have children

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48 thoughts on “I gave my husband permission to be with another woman because I could not give him a child | LNN”

  1. Your happiness matters with or without a child,we have seen parents regretting to have given birth to their children who in the end have become public nuisances ,God never goes wrong and he does things that benefit u the most

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  2. It wasn't her fault that she couldn't have a kid.. that's beyond her..the vows say for better for worse..allowing your man to get a kid out of wedlock wasn't a solution..you were emotionally disturbed but am glad you are doing well

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  3. Susan you're an amazing lady! I know of men who have stood together with their wives for years despite having no child. Some men simply do not have this grace because they listen to many external voices. Lynn please bring Evelyn Wanjiru to the show, she will encourage so many ladies!

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  4. True definition of a strong Lady,,,this gal has gone through alot regarding her health issues, I recall back then in high-school, I was her high-school mum."my mono"….Suzie God love you so much.

    TRUST IN HIM.

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  5. Lynn, please tell your guests we want the story. Not to focus too much on hypotheses and philosophies. Hizo atuachie sisi hapa kwa comments. Having said that, I agree that one must attain a level of contentment to be happy.

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  6. It's funny how people with kids will tell those without kids " gosh you don't know what you are missing!" Exactly that! you can't miss what you don't know. Kids don't mean heaven when the couple are comfortable with not having kids life has more important things

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  7. This lady's story is so inspiring.I have really learnt a lot from this lady.I was in this pressure last year ,pressure from family,friends that I need to get married and have children.I felt so much hurt and emotionally disturbed.I made up my mind to have a baby and raise him or her on my own.I was really bothered by my decision I had to evaluate myself why do I need to have a baby and I realised I was getting the child to please the society and not for myself and there I made up my mind never again should I allow myself to make decisions based on other people's opinion or societal expectation.Thanks Lynn for bringing in this wonderful lady.

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  8. God performs miracles. My own niece had blocked tubes, later on she was discovered with big fibroids. The option was only to remove the uterus. But she refused and insisted that she will give birth.
    Long story short, at the age of 49 years she gave birth to a very health baby boy who is three months now. Yes God can perform a miracle

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  9. Wow!!! Am inspired….this lady is gifted with wisdom. The eloquence, the intelligent, the strength, the ability to give hope to many who are in marriages and not happy…..for sure a woman should not be defined by giving birth or getting married.
    My take home……live positively regardless of what's happening around for there is so much meant to bring one down that one can might miss the joy of life…..💞💞bless you Lord Susan. Glad to hear you are persuing psychology, you are gifted.

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  10. Congratulations Susan .. Having children doesn’t justify your happiness… May the joy of the lord remain your strength and enjoy life to the full .. well done.. You’re amazing woman ..

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  11. That’s true, people r very proud to b called mama so n so but for me I hv two beautiful children but I forbidden my mum n refused to be called mama…., they all call me my name 😊

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  12. I have been married for 8 years and no baby yet, I really thank God, the issue never bothers my husband. But I had one nasty experience with my mom's sister who called me thata (barren) I will never forget and will never forgive her.

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  13. My grandmother is 96 years. She only gave birth to my mother and her sister. She is abused up to today that she as good as barren coz she never got a son. I can feel this lady. God will surely intervene my sister. You are still young.

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  14. I know this journey too well.Fought secondary infertilty;never conceived in marriage-11 years.Hubby conceived with another woman!Went through hell and finally walked out on Dec 1st 2022.I will share my story someday!The pain of infertility is so wearing!!!

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  15. The only true and firm solid foundation for any relationship, is Jesus Christ. Each person in the ship must have a strong relationship with His Saviour. Learning how God deals with us as individuals gives us valueable guidance on how to deal with each other in whatsoever situation. Wise counsel states that courtship should last at least 2yrs. This is ample time to learn and study how your spouse deals with the different situations. My two cents and some change!

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  16. A similar story like mine I truly love ,marriage ,children and everything but I had to fight infertility once my mother in law called me a 🐕 dog I will never forgive her never angeniangalia juu Chini azin nikama nilikataa kuzaa lakini najua kila kitu huwa na sababu yake😭😭😔😭😭😭😭 I almost ran mad but kuna kitu moja nilijiambia heri nikae pekee yangu nijue mashida yangu ni yangu kuliko kushindiana na MTU 😭😭😭

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