These are some simple practices that have helped me be a better and more magnetic lover
I hope human-ing is going well for you today and if not, I pray that this video be a little pocket of peace and reminder of your infinite potential
xoxo,
Toto
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0:00-1:32 welcome to my world
1:32-3:23 energetic attraction – self intimacy
3:23-4:41 inviting sacred silliness
4:41-8:11 creating stable forms of love
8:11-10:41 existential kink
10:41-16:43 introducing your shadow and revealing imperfection
16:43-20:58 non judgement and neutrality
20:58-23:58 bedroom confidence
23:58-26:17 boundaries & communication
26:17-27:03 farewell, lovers
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Am I the only one who feels like she's a jar of honey? 😂 it might sound weird but every time I hear her talk about stuff its like she is emanating this loving sweetness 🤔
Hi Hitomi! I love your videos so much. I wonder if you could make a video about polyamory and how to cope with jealousy or possession in that dynamic, if that’s something you engage in. I wanna get into it but it’s so scary for me. Thank you so much for your healing content ❤
Girl can you just write a book please thank you
thank you for this hitomi. your videos feel so safe, inspiring and beautiful. thank you for being you! <3
Loved this video so much. Thank you 🙏🏽❤️
Girl you always know what I need
Aw you are riding the collective how major
watching your videos always makes me remember myself <33 Also, it feels like lately youre shining even brighter with confidence and love and joy (if that was even possible 😉 ) So much love transmuted through the screen <3
I have a quick question- have you ever taken medication Hitomi? From your past videos talking about suicide attempts, severe depression to the place you are now I want to know how you did it. I’ve been recommended medication for years and I keep saying that I’m taking care of myself and balancing my hormones in a holistic way. Tips?
hi hitomi! thank you so much for this video it resonated with me a lot with where i am at in my journey currently. something you said in the last section on sexuality/sensuality really caught my interest where you said you sometimes find yourself struggling to be your authentic self around men. for as long as i remember i have had such a rocky relationship with men (not just romantically), and i have tried so many times to enter new relationships with love and an open heart only to feel like i cannot relate/connect at all. i was socialized heavily around women and when i hear you speak i feel 100% in tune with you. i love men so much, but just STRUGGLE soooo much. i have looked online for healthy/vulnerable sources to learn from but cant seem to find anything. it's usually quite toxic actually whenever it relates to men…. if you feel so inclined would you be open to speaking on this? (:
hi hitomi, everything you said completely reflected what i’ve been doing for the past month, so thank you for giving it a voice. in particular, i feel like when you take life as a “joke” (or in a more Indian way of intending it, you give space to the so-called “līla”) or as a “dance”, everyone who cares deeply for you immediately starts to align to you vibration and i think that’s amazing!
Love you
The exisistential kink tip! Thank yaaaa 🪯🩷
Thank you so much Hitomi. You are a gift. I needed this 💜✨
this was a very helpful video for me. thank you for sharing your perspective and love.
Thank you Hitomi for this chat❤ your videos and topics always come up in divine timing. Thank you for reminding me to be non-judgemental and fully accepting of “negative” feelings that sporadically arise. I am feeling so refreshed 🙂
Hitomi!!! Ugh I love you 🥹♥️
Dearest Hitomi, I used to be really scared and disturbed by your content for a reason I couldn't articulate. I think I was so afraid that that joy and deep self intimacy could never be for me. I thought that self intimacy and love would have to include self punishment. I had this idea that there was so much pain in me and I wasn't strong enough, didn't have the energy to feel through the avalanche of fear. I am rewatching your videos from a very new place. I left school and I'm terrified but I am finally free. I can finally hear you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
this video is one im gonna re-watch many times, it is so rich and helpful. You really have a gift of making people (or atleast me) feel at peace, calmer and grounded.
Thank you again Hitomi
I love you so much. You made me cry on one sentence. Thank you for this video
Can you please make a podcast 💕 I love this wisdom
Song in the beginning?
Thank you.
this was such a wonderful conversation and a reminder. Thank you.