Healthy Relationships After Abuse? | Narcissistic Abuse Expert Answers

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Is it possible to love and have a healthy relationship after C-PTSD and adverse environments?

By the end of this video, you’ll have a simpler understanding of what questions you should be asking yourself after abuse. So; hopefully you enter into your next relationship with more clarity, peace and understanding.

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Timestamps:
00:00 | Intro
00:43 | The Question
01:13 | Thank you for watching
01:30 | All on our terms?
04:22 | Living in a house with an Adult for decades
05:36 | Get Realistic and Specific
06:10 | Successful relationships are routines
06:40 | You have to compromise
07:30 | The Philosophy that works
08:10 | You are not a Child Anymore
09:35 | We need to have adult conversations
21:34 | Boundaries
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22 thoughts on “Healthy Relationships After Abuse? | Narcissistic Abuse Expert Answers”

  8. I agree with the comments in this video and I think its refreshing hearing a guy speak out in this way about the state of society and relationships. I think a huge reason for the failures (amongst the other factors mentioned in the video) is that people who are genuinely authentic are a rare find.

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  9. I never ever heard the most honest yutube who are talking like this such a honest way. I had kind a same life part as you, drugs and stuff…anyway I am out for years. I am real into psychology and all makes sense to me what are you saying and from my experience in of ex 7 years relationship. There is so much people don't see and have illusional thoughts about love as some ideal..

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  13. I miss my Dad and his hugs and our great conversations. He was so awesome and I'm afraid I'll never find romantic love that feels as safe as that was. And yeah, I'm going back to therapy for the millionth time…. 😆

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  14. Our 10 years have been tumultuous, busy, full as well as routine, quiet and ordered…love is giving as well as receiving…anyone who thinks a good/great relationship is all Valentines Day schmaltz is destined to fail!

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  17. I am a Germán living in South América, coming out of a trauma bond to a really hot chick.
    She or better the relationship more precise me helped me to do what you call in an abstract manner «shadow work».
    There is so much narcissism in victims, co-dependents, you don't want to hear it, that's prove enough.
    The phantasy of ideal love, projection on «narcissists» diagnosed by grandious specialists, the very you. The infantile need for narcessistic supply. Making internet forums of flying monkies in the desperation for a hateful smear campaign.
    You chose, YOU stayed and you didn't go away (early).
    That's where I am at with my «shadow work» another wellness word for something that should hurt and shatter you through the pain of becomming an adult. I am 57, I feel shame in the right manner not a toxic shame from another person who doesn't want to carry their own shame.
    Anybody could see that in me in a secound, my neediness, my want for a mom's tit, whom do you think do you attract like this?
    Richard is talking to entitled narcissists, unaware.
    I belive in God since the age of 52, without that humble and love, the lesson of my psychopath had been useless. Where there is pain there can be change, it's up to you to waste pain.
    I have new friends in marriges and long term relationships. It's a poor country, they tought me real loyalty. They are great friends and made me a better friend. Their relationships are most of all friendships. They stick together and don't argue.
    They look for a women for me they know for a long time that might fit with me, I have proven I have the wrong filter finding a good girl.
    I was a 'one girl imidiate exclusive relationship guy', a Hollywood Simp. They said: Try them all as long as you want, need to… or as long as you can stand have so many girls in your life. One girl is no choice, two girls is a dilema, three girls starting to be a choice. Women need men more than men need women.
    This girls are trained by weak men, they are very unhappy they play their entitled weak games with them, but they need a real man. They are indians enough to recognize a strong man. My friends saw the strong man in me and showed him to me.
    God is freedom. Sometimes I use the freedom to skip them all to do a motorbike tour on my own, to come back stronger. They are all young and beautiful, before my transformación I had selled my soul to each of them. Now I am not selling sh…it.
    I have more money than most of the readers, but I live a simple life like an indio. To be poor makes me happy, there is nothing to get from me. God is freedom, the freedom of choice.
    Feminine energy needs safety, masculine energy needs freedom.
    I offer safety and security. We have the luxury of two different languages castellano and a indian language of the soul. Nobody is able to lie in this. A tricky question is answered with an admitting smile of the eyes. In the moments I am with a girl I love her truly, I give without exspectations. I observe if she is able to recieve, if so it is more joy to give, a narc could ever emagine. The one who makes me feel calm and happy the most sees me the most.
    None of them could get me to an exclusive relationship yet. I don't enjoy that as some of you might think, love is an act not an emotion, relationship is an obligación, especially for a man.
    All my parameters have changed.
    I refused single moms. Then I realized it depends on the kind of kid. The feminism and their laws make it unbareable for me to have own kids, but I love kids, so the right kid is a solución, I didn't think about before.
    If it's not toxic, strong and can work in the campo, it's a gift. I can teach all I know, so nothing gets lost.
    I like tall strong women with muscles now, they can work and just in case defend themselfes. The less words are used the deaper the connection. A submissive woman has my respect, she knows me, love is knowing each other.
    Real communication happens though the eyes and by actions.
    This insane man has toxic masculinity, security and care to offer. There are no sexual problems for the girls If you know what I mean, it takes them by their feminine souls. It is more about what you need than what you want, your wants are truly corrupted.
    Women without the weapon of the law need men more, but at least they have a chance to be safe and happy trusting a good man. My shadow is, I realized I don't need relationship at all, they know, but maybe one day one will trick me in by their actions.
    All people let me be this way. They deaply understand my situation. I don't need enemies any more.
    Desde otro lado del mundo

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