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I didn’t expect to make a video about relationships. There are so many other topics that seemed more important, but I’ve had a few conversations recently that brought the subject of dating back into my awareness. This brought up a lot of the observations I’ve made over the years, not as an active participant (conventional dating is not for me, never has been, and never will be), but as someone who intuitively picks up on relational patterns.
I have strong opinions, as we all do, regarding this topic. It’s almost impossible to separate our individual experience from our perception of the collective experience. However, I’ve tried my best to check my own biases at the door before coming to these conclusions so I don’t contribute to the polarization that we already have plenty of. Will I succeed? I don’t know, but I will try my best to make this a conversation of understanding and reconciliation, even though that might kill engagement, lol.
So why dating? Besides childhood, dating and relationships have proven to be the number one source of experiences we spend significant time healing from. And since most of you watching are in your 20s and 30s, it’s likely that a romantic, intimate relationship is in the top three things you desire for yourself soon. Yet, it’s also a major source of distress.
Dating today is very difficult for qualified people and very easy for unqualified people. This is not just a belief—it’s an objective truth supported by research and countless anecdotes from both men and women. Dating involves a lot of effort with a slim chance of reward, resulting in high highs and low lows, many promises, and little delivery.
To sum it up, dating makes people resent relationships when it should be facilitating them.
This isn’t a coincidence. Every few decades, our society undergoes a restructuring after a significant awakening. This awakening is happening right now. We’re collectively mourning and feeling disenchanted by the media, books, movies, and music that once spoke of this love that was going to solve all our problems. We feel collectively betrayed by entertainment and propaganda that kept us compliant while hiding corruption.
The promise of love is a significant part of that betrayal. Millennials and Gen Z are suffering the most—the resources that make us competitive in our “prime” are either incredibly difficult to attain or constantly changing. Throw in some unregulated tech, some social atrophy, and a cultural pendulum that swings from one extreme to the other, and you’ve got yourself a recipe for collective burnout.
We’re waking up to the systems, institutions, and roadmaps that were supposed to guarantee our success but have failed us miserably. Now, we’re looking for who’s responsible.
And who is easier to blame than those we outsource our fulfillment to—our partners, dates, and potential relationships. Our emotional surrogates.
What lengths are we willing to go to secure them… and at what cost?
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🔑 Key Topics:
Modern Dating
Dating Culture
Love and Romance
Dating Apps
Millennials and Gen Z
Emotional Health
Self-Love
Relationship Advice
Dating Struggles
Dating Market
Online Dating
Toxic Relationships
Love Bombing
Breadcrumbing
Gaslighting
Dating Coaches
Traditional Relationships
Emotional Connection
Masculinity and Femininity
Relationship Expectations
Digital Age Dating
Impact of Technology on Relationships
Vulnerability in Relationships
Emotional Courage
Love and Fear
Healing from Relationships
Personal Growth and Dating
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It’s hard to find a good woman that knows how to be with a man that’s not self absorbed. So you got to go slow and until them just go for what you want with a woman and most likely she’s doing the same. Meaning nowadays ppl. don’t show their true side until you get to know them. So expecting women to be totally truthful about herself os rare. Most of the time women say they want a good man, but many women don’t know what they want. So don’t be lead by one of these women or you’ll be disappointed.
Dating seem much easier back in the days…
"Love" is nothing but a state of euphoria. After all the centuries of wars and plaques and etc, people are beginning to learn they can't stay in a state of euphoria as it costs too much.
Social media and monetization of the most critical and personal of human relationships has basically destroyed our society. We are a morally bankrupt, emotionally immature set of generations that is mired in this cesspool that is postmodernism. I don't think there's any recovering from this. In my early 40s, I've personally pretty much given up; I'm unwilling to compromise my principles to get into the next toxic relationship of a string of the ones I've left in the past.
Women are completely self centered and evil who's only motivation is to take as much money from men as they possibly can. Sad, but true 😢
Men need to set their standard. Stick to them. Stop being simps.
Until women stop having delusional expectations, start telling feminist that are wrong for their man hatred, women stop stop supporting men who say they are women and can go into women’s spaces freely, and start respecting men. Dating is done.
If it wasn’t for biology, there’s nothing at all attractive about the modern woman. She buys crap that makes her miserable so she can complain about how it’s sucking up all her energy attention and time. When you suggest she gets rid of the things costing her she says you lack empathy. No I’m just not interested in staying in a miserable hole of my own design, thanks.
Take the blackpill…. Swallow the truth.
lol idk whats dating cause im a short man and no woman wants me.
Jesus is the Way, Truth, and the Light! God is the real treasure because He is Creator of all treasures! Jesus is the door to salvation!
This is what happens when Men or leaders turn from God and the Lord Jesus Christ and not setting the example.
It can all burn. I'm not compromising my principles.
I would never consider having a romantic relationship again.
It's ironic that a person who harbours such negative views of male, female relationships would make such a long winded video summation, criticising modern dating culture.
The bitter f*min*st dogma, it seems, has fully infiltred your world view and clouded your better judgment. By equating traditional marriage based gender roles with financial abuse, you do nothing but sow the seeds of social discontent, causing further disharmony.
Your passive-agressive justification of female ()F prostitution, complete with a smug little smirk, was a nice touch also.
Perhaps in future you could focus your energy on positive causes.
Rev. X
Great points.
You're like a silly teenager showing off how many big words she knows and how fast and how confidently she can talk. You're really not so clever. Grow up, then come back and you might have something useful to say. Bye for now.
You have really beautiful eyes, you know that? And a beautiful voice.
This isn't a flirt or a come-on, I'm just observing and complimenting.
What is the point of life at this point seriously man why continue to suffer knowing that at this point life is the biggest joke ever played
Love is dead in the West, people have become too cynical
Thank feminism for that.
It's the age of single men and lesbian couples…all having sirrogated babies from a third world country
There's no way any of this is an accident. 30 years ago in High School they were warning us of an impending population explosion apocalypse.
'They' found a way to turn it around.
Right this moment there are millions of theoretical babies that would overwise be born to theoretically happy families but we live in a parallel reality where thats not happening. Seriously, write a whole list of everything that attacks monogamy and the family unit in the west and try to tell me this was an accident. 'They' had to do sonething, and they've succeeded spectacularly.
The Pandas are getting more sex than the rest of us.