After my father took the life of my mother, I became so empty and started attracting abusive men|LNN



For Charlotte Kavata, knowing her father took the life of her mother was something she would have to live with all her life but she was not prepared for how much this would ruin her future relationships with other men.

On this episode of LNS, Rebuilding series, she walks us through her life’s journey after losing her mother, future relationships, and the pain of losing the only man who ever deeply and truly cared and loved her

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  1. Good morning team LNN!

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  2. Love from Uganda .lynn your stories inspires me alot .have been through alot having heart breaks , disappointments, lacking. , being a single mothers .but i never lose hope in life through your stories people share with us i get motivated
    And one day i will testify my journey .bse we are not what we pass through ..

    Flowers gal n the team

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  3. I knew his second man Enoch who came from kakamega county, a village by the name Ebuhayi, unfortunately he died at his work place in Lamu when a landmine exploded and destroyed his head. The brother in law is by the name simon mukoshi.

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  4. Iam one person who believe Enoch was sent to you in that short moment to uplift you to show you your worth and he did his assignment very well and left you a beautiful baby to remind you of him keep going gal you are beautiful ❤️

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  5. Now this is me in the past at 21 with a kid unsupportive baby dad no anything nothing, People looking at me like a failure i was the talk of the whole family, anyway am good now a mother of one wonderful boy and very sharp ,14years later iam good proved to them i can do it ,i thank God just like her i got a civil servant job and to God be the glory!!
    She is lovable and good things will locate

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  6. Kavata you can model. Think about it. You are too strong, brave, energetic, calm and composed.
    I like the way you kept your feet an one position with the heels. Like you ain't struggling at all to maintain that posture yuu have kept throughout the talk. You are such a gem. Receive your flowers mammi. We thank God for Enoch. He tapped a version of you that probably nobody else could.

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  7. I don't know why women always say they normalized beatings because they grew up watching it from their parents 🙄 i strongly disagree with them …i grew up in a very toxic family which cost my mom's life 😢from there i swore with my life i wll never tolerate a man who shout at me leave alone beating me……i disagree with these type of ladies i think they just use it as an excuse 4 being silly

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  8. Gal your mom was a real beauty as you are ❤your story resembles mine, loosing parents at a young age, being taken to a children's home, growing in a lonely environment, learning to depend on myself since I was 5😭😭at form two the sponsorship ends, my relatives"mom's side"neglects me and my uncle tries to rape me 😭😭started life out here alone, became a mother @17yrs @20 I met this young man who I thought we would do life together but coz of my story his family adviced him I was not a good wife😢later the guy proved he didn't love me, became so abusive and now I had to leave so broken and depressed coz I still loved him😢😢I got saved, got close to my God and in him I found a true friend.. I'm now healing from the depression and realizing how God loves me coz have been living coz of him only.. For my relatives I forgave you, my children are my family now and I'm so greatful for they love me and I just want to give them the love I didn't get when growing up.. I've become this prayerful woman and I now understand whatever good thing I want comes from my father God🙏it has been my prayer to get married to my Best friend and I still believe it will happen coz through God nothing is impossible 🙏

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  9. Like she said she got too good at hiding what she was going through!we trained together and its true you couldn't tell she was going through all this and then after training life is still not that easy on her side….she's a strong woman may God be by her side the days of her life!

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