In this episode I discuss the issue of individuals burdening others with their unresolved issues and traumas in relationships. I emphasize the importance of recognizing that it is not fair to expect someone else to heal us or make us whole. I hope to encourage listeners to take responsibility for their own healing, to work on themselves, and to strive to be the best version of themselves before entering into a relationship. One must understand the significance of self-love and self-awareness in order to show up as a better partner. The message is: We should not rely on others to complete us, but rather, focus on our own growth and well-being before seeking connection with someone else.
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[00:02:22] “Broken pieces on floor, impossible to fix.”
[00:03:30] Connection requires self-awareness and healing.
[00:08:32] “Work on yourself before expecting love”
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Thanks for your wisdom
Lisa, this message is “Everything” your brilliance and emotional intelligence is off the charts! You touched on so many important and deeply profound things in your message — you’re a blessing to the world!🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️🤩🙏🏾 I agree with everything you’ve conveyed we are responsible for our own healing, happiness, growth and emotional development.😊
Once again, though no surprise … you have endeavored to impart such a sage meditation that is so penetrating. The thing about your messages is that they permeate the soul, they tap, ever so gently, into aspects of one’s being … of my being. Thank you Lisa! I lost my wife last year and I miss that connectedness with that one special person. I understand that I am still going through the process of grieving the loss of my wife of 36 years, but I’m trying to find the balance between that and getting to the point of connecting with someone else, someone new. I know that that time is not right now and yet I long for it, because I;m not used to being alone. Today is our wedding anniversary! 😪
Your words really resonate with me at the point in my life where I am at.
Thank you for your encouragement.🙏🏾♥️
Thank you for this message, Sis. I'm still learning this. God knows I want a few folks to join me on my healing journey but I also know that they have to get to that season in their lives and that is not my load to carry, I have to continue on my path of healing for ME.
I appreciate you! Sending you peace, love & light ✨💛✨
Thank you 😊 💓
Aunty just know when to come through! God and aunty just aligned to the T! I was struggling this so badly and just feeling overwhelmed. The reminder is lovely and much needed.
Ase’ This was so much needed 🙏🏽 Blessings 💕
I definitely needed to hear this message 💙 Much Love to you Sis
Someone (a person you idealize as a partner) more grounded than you could serve as your inspiration. Observe them and instill in yourself what positive attributes you see in them. Then you can meet in between. So always always be tactful when trying to connect with somebody, if they are healed more than you, so you won't have to sever any ties of your connection. Rare gems are always hard to find. Stay changing, y'all's.❤
Thank you Sis, Gods perfect timing. How much I needed this. Thank you thank you thank you. Sending so much love, we are truly blessed with your words of wisdom.❤️🙏🏽✨️
Dear God,
Thank you for using my sister Lisa Marie for such a touching message in reminding me that I and many people on this world are just growing through life. May we continue to be in remembrance that as master-peaces we are a working process and progress in showing up as the best way we can. We may fall into bad habits, mistakes, thoughts, but we recognize them by reclaiming our authority in knowing who we are and keep moving forward. Thank you.
Asé and amen 🙏🏾✨🤎
Hi, Lisa Marie. I noticed this about myself a long time ago when I attempted to get in a relationship. I realized that I wasn’t ready for one because I didn’t put in the work to develop the person I desired from others. This was a great reminder and also gave me some knowledge on how to do this.
Just perfect
Loved it
Literally broke up with an amazing man yesterday because he couldn’t hold space for and that wasn’t a fair ask on my part. I still have a lot of personal work to do before I date again- thank you for frankness, will rewatch this a few times as I process.
I appreciate your videos ❤. I have come to learn that self love is vital. I have been struggling with low self-esteem my whole life and my relationships suffered the consequences. Now in this journey of self-love i have lost relationships and its okay. I promised to focus on my healing first even is it has to cost me relationships. This is one of the safest space❤
you alwayzz' know what to say…{K.W.U.}…✨🧘✨
Hey gal, thanks for sharing these words of wisdom. They are life-changing. May God continue to Use you Mightily
So when is the book dropping?
The weight of another i chose to help carry when i wasn't aware of my own. It flattened me to the ground and i only had the strength to crawl out from underneath and run away. I really appreciated hearing this today. 🙏🏽 Thank you. 💖
"No one is perfect, but you should want to be the best version of yourself. Starting with Self Awareness. "
You know Lisa, this is where I am right now. I've been doing a lot of work on the inner me, really realizing what self love looks like for myself and it is beautiful! It's beautiful finding these things out about myself that I didn't know but will allow me to have better relationships, not just romantically but socially.
Everything you said is spot on and I'm happy to find this confirmation that I'm on the right path.
Thank you for this 🙏🏽✨
You can lie to everyone else but you can’t lie to yourself 😊. Words I live by
I’ve had to pause your message a minute in, but no doubt will continue to play to the end .. I just had to say what your saying mostly thus far into this vlog only comes with wisdom or age or experience and from those that are willing to look within and willing to see self flaws no matter how painful understanding does not come easy especially in this world we are looking in to/ from… just because we/I feel how I think act feel talk is the right way doesn’t mean it’s the only way, acceptance is our key 🔐 to unlock the emotions we entwine our selves up in which serves no purpose ❤
Ashe! “…showing up as the best healed version” (paraphrased) is key💚 Thank you Lisa🌸
Oftentimes I’ve thought of entering a relationship whilst in the midst of healing and kinda sort of expecting someone to understand…and hoping they do.
I do believe it can be done and it has in a previous relationship that ended abruptly because of the challenges of navigating those healing dynamics😔 we weren’t ready! I discovered two individuals have to be really truly honest and transparent about where they both are…as we are all in a path to evolution even if it’s unconscious.
Peace Sis🩷
Stay Blessed we appreciate the vibes🖤
Off topic but we need a tour of those beautiful plants ☀️💫
powerful sister!
Whew, this is me. But I'm working on it and taking accountability. Thank you for sharing
Thanks 🙏🏽
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Thank you Jesus, for this message. Confirmation on top in Confirmation. Love this❤