17 thoughts on “My Take on Andrew Tate & the Crisis of Masculinity”
This was a profoundly heart warming message as a man. Hearing you speak like that as a woman hit this particular note that I never thought would be hit. It sounds like what I would say to women if I was brave enough. You're divine, you're vital, you have super powers that society would love for you to consider mundane. and you're capable of greatness too! I genuinely wish you the best in finding your Man. Harmony, Balance, Rhythm.
Also, great video and I happen to completely agree with it too, so apologies for not providing an interesting argument against it. Amazing.
I absolutely love your videos! Thank you Chloe for the wisdom! I so resonate with seeing deeper into him and seeing the trauma and it is very sad that he probably hardly ever feels safe and like he can relax into himself and be vulnerable with others. It’s so inspiring to see how integrated you already are in your early years! Can’t wait to keep hearing from you over the years as you grow even wiser 😊
Dear Chloe, What is the relationship of PLAY to Competition?
is it complicated by the relationship of POWER to Competition?
(Im trying to fit in here, too, "Love is that which enables choice" – Forrest Landry — because Im not terribly easy with this one either, so I shoe-horn it in whenever LOVE comes up as an inquiry — Im sure by bringing in Landry here, Im getting ahead of my self — let me stay with my simple inquiry above)
I've always said that's Tate's strongman routine is a vaneer hiding a scared little boy. I'm so proud of my mother for raising my brother to be a strong man who is in touch with his feelings and respectful of women, not because they are women but because they are human too. My sister's have done the same with their boys and so they are not susceptible to messaging from men like Tate.
Viewing people as objects is syptomatic of narcissism, psycopathy, etc. There is no cure for these conditions. Tate is probably a psychopath because he feels so entitled to control, harm, and destroy, and he does it proudly and publically. And that is probably why he has the following he has, because of his Narcissistic charm, which naive people can't see through until it's too late. This is why he is so good at manipulating women (and men) and exploiting them. He is also like a psychopath because he looks down on "simps," aka people with empathy, as weak and worthy of his dominance. Therefore, he automatically looks down on women because he can physically manipulate them, and thinks they must deserve what he does to them.
I agree that parenting is very important to break cycles of abuse, but there is a point when adults are beyond capacity to be healed and they go fully into darkness. Your message is inspiring, but I don't think we need to have sympathy for psychopaths. We have never in history been able to cure a psychopath into feeling real remorse and changing their behavior to become good people. It's unrealistic to expect that pattern to change. Some broken people out there still have time to restore their humanity, but I think it is dangerous to hold out hope for a man like Tate because that futile hope is exactly what psychopaths prey on and manipulate. The sooner our whole society comes to grips with evil, the better off we will be. Sorry, but human trafficking is just unforgivable. He should stay in prison for life and maybe we can break the generational cycle that way.
This is what I needed to hear today, thank you. I live and work in a very broken system where the men and boys of my ethnicity are viewed as less than, in every sense. So then I, as a woman, are viewed as even less than that. My intrinsic knowledge, my belief system and my integrity are always in question. I work in a max prison. The men in uniform are always right, the men doing time are always wrong, there’s no room for change. It’s incredibly disheartening. But if not me, then who? I’ll continue to be a bright light, shining in the darkness in the places we should all be afraid of, only because people want power over others.
This was a profoundly heart warming message as a man. Hearing you speak like that as a woman hit this particular note that I never thought would be hit. It sounds like what I would say to women if I was brave enough. You're divine, you're vital, you have super powers that society would love for you to consider mundane. and you're capable of greatness too! I genuinely wish you the best in finding your Man. Harmony, Balance, Rhythm.
Also, great video and I happen to completely agree with it too, so apologies for not providing an interesting argument against it. Amazing.
thank you
8:08 reminds me of a criticism I’ve seen of Cinderella: marrying Prince Charming is seen as the ultimate prize to win.
I absolutely love your videos! Thank you Chloe for the wisdom! I so resonate with seeing deeper into him and seeing the trauma and it is very sad that he probably hardly ever feels safe and like he can relax into himself and be vulnerable with others. It’s so inspiring to see how integrated you already are in your early years! Can’t wait to keep hearing from you over the years as you grow even wiser 😊
Love that you would sing Son of Man as a lullaby! A beautiful idea
FUCKING DRAG HIM CHLOE, LOL.
Beautiful!
Wow, this is terrific!
Chloe. You should just talk to Tate. He’s probably available
Dear Chloe,
What is the relationship of PLAY to Competition?
is it complicated by the relationship of POWER to Competition?
(Im trying to fit in here, too, "Love is that which enables choice" – Forrest Landry — because Im not terribly easy with this one either, so I shoe-horn it in whenever LOVE comes up as an inquiry — Im sure by bringing in Landry here, Im getting ahead of my self — let me stay with my simple inquiry above)
I've always said that's Tate's strongman routine is a vaneer hiding a scared little boy. I'm so proud of my mother for raising my brother to be a strong man who is in touch with his feelings and respectful of women, not because they are women but because they are human too. My sister's have done the same with their boys and so they are not susceptible to messaging from men like Tate.
Viewing people as objects is syptomatic of narcissism, psycopathy, etc. There is no cure for these conditions. Tate is probably a psychopath because he feels so entitled to control, harm, and destroy, and he does it proudly and publically. And that is probably why he has the following he has, because of his Narcissistic charm, which naive people can't see through until it's too late. This is why he is so good at manipulating women (and men) and exploiting them. He is also like a psychopath because he looks down on "simps," aka people with empathy, as weak and worthy of his dominance. Therefore, he automatically looks down on women because he can physically manipulate them, and thinks they must deserve what he does to them.
I agree that parenting is very important to break cycles of abuse, but there is a point when adults are beyond capacity to be healed and they go fully into darkness. Your message is inspiring, but I don't think we need to have sympathy for psychopaths. We have never in history been able to cure a psychopath into feeling real remorse and changing their behavior to become good people. It's unrealistic to expect that pattern to change. Some broken people out there still have time to restore their humanity, but I think it is dangerous to hold out hope for a man like Tate because that futile hope is exactly what psychopaths prey on and manipulate. The sooner our whole society comes to grips with evil, the better off we will be. Sorry, but human trafficking is just unforgivable. He should stay in prison for life and maybe we can break the generational cycle that way.
Men just need to hit the gym.
This is a powerful message. I glance at the time while watching this video and it says 4:44 pm
This is what I needed to hear today, thank you. I live and work in a very broken system where the men and boys of my ethnicity are viewed as less than, in every sense. So then I, as a woman, are viewed as even less than that. My intrinsic knowledge, my belief system and my integrity are always in question. I work in a max prison. The men in uniform are always right, the men doing time are always wrong, there’s no room for change. It’s incredibly disheartening. But if not me, then who? I’ll continue to be a bright light, shining in the darkness in the places we should all be afraid of, only because people want power over others.
Thank you Chloe for living the Vail
Thank you so much for this. It came at a critical time for me.