One thing I have noticed is that women state they want the truth, but when they get it from a man, they actually argue it down or completely doubt the validity of what a man says! It’s the strangest phenomenon I’ve ever seen. Thank you Mr. Gaskins and God bless you and your family 💕!!
I am a woman and will be fair. Men aren't getting married because they are getting free milk left and right…women need to take responsibility for their actions…fornication isn't going to bring you Godly blessings like marriage.
Tony, you are right I’m used to being single, I like to have the money right out to buy the things I want. And so on, there are other intricate details I look for in a man that I’m not willing to look pass.
👂 the wisdom in this video 👏 👏 I haven't met the one yet, bt yet this video helps understand key points abt choosing and accepting, and yes we women are quicker to accept a mans stank, while they be picky…❤️💙💜💚💛🧡
I needed to hear this today – not just concerning my relationships but my career, where I'll relocate to – everything. Lord help me to get out of my own way, make sound decisions, take action, and trust you. Lord help me to be a praying woman who will keep things simple and be prayerful.
Wow! This video was very real and honest. Too many people being overly picky about the partner they want. For this reason I try to evaluate and ask myself am I putting more focus on my preferences rather than my standards. Standards over preferences.
So tired of this topic. I am 58 yo, 5’10, 128lbs, former model, look 10 years younger than I am. Many of the men my age are overweight, hair loss, want sex(as if!!) and think they deserve beautiful women, lol. Bored w them all. I’m just making more money and enjoying my own stress free company.
Tony another great video🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 you keep hitting the nail on the head !!! I watched the video 3x's 😂. You are right, change is hard but it goes back to God and a person spiritual foundation; are we trusting God, are we walking in faith, are you in alignment with God or the world seeking the right qualities? If so, it should not be hard. Society has made relationships, dating, and marriage challenging from being uncompromising, unrealistic expectations of perfection to making butt and beauty king and lord, dating 10 people at one time is the best route. And "coaches" "relationship experts" and individuals using their platforms (not you) to tell folks the opposite of God and folks are listening to them. Many men are looking at the outside forming a decision and running with it without getting to know the women inside. Or willing to talk, pray, or faith things out. Society has so many conditioned at the first sign of a disagreement that person is not who God has for you so replace them expeditiously. The story of the airplane and flight attendant was 🎯. The story about the woman going to stage 6 and end up with nothing brought tears to my eyes because hearing it out loud is disgusting. I am single and waiting to be found. I am woman of God and educated– in progress to graduate with my master's degree in December. Honest, loyal, affectionate, considerate, and emotional available, intelligent, and appropriate. I work out and wellness minded. I work and love my job, tenured employee of 9 years. I'm in Marietta, Georgia and live a quiet life…I don't drink, smoke, or club. I know my worth, have Godly morals, values, and standards. This year I've decided to step out more and enjoy life with hopes to be found while doing so all while trusting God. I don't pick and choose with a false positive, expectations of perfection because I'm not perfect. Today society is so consumed with looks, status, likes, looks, and materialistic things that fade away or can change in one disaster, transaction, or unfortunate event.
Father God thank you for fresh patience and wisdom today. Thank you for fresh perspective and a childlike faith. Thank you for positioning me and placing me at the right place, right time, with the right people to be found. Thank you for placing me on your single son's mind, heart and in his plans. Reroute our thoughts, correct our sight, and guide our minds from seeking perfection and if at any time we get in our own way as you bring us together guide I'll steps and our stops. Give him the faith to know he will find me and me the patience I will be found. Let us not move out of desperation, frustration, temptation but keep our trust in you. In Jesus name, Amen ✝️🙏🏾
Growth REQUIRES you to be uncomfortable. And most of these single comfortable men are not growing whatsoever and it takes a woman (bless her heart) to put their passion and purpose into fruition. And that’s sad. They’re single because women can no longer afford to put them first. They need to wake up collectively because the work needs to be done within.
Thank you Tony for your teaching. These men comfortable being alone are not alone. Yes living in their own home, sexing various women, dating for any events they want; sports, opera, the met, holiday parties. This is closer to the truth…. But, me I’m focusing on mastering my God given calling! 🎉🎉❤️
Great message! I think if a man shows you he is content with being single and you desire to be married, then it's best to go on with your life and wait for God to send you your husband.
Tony please make the dating app!!!!! This is something I'll be willing to pay top 💲 for. This is the void we need filled. Screened candidates (on both women and men, dating with coaching and process of holding people accountable to avoid ghosting without a legitimate explanation.
Men that are older at least over 30 years old are to comfortable being single. That is why men should be looking for a wife earlier on so he don't get comfortable. Sometime they don't have goals for themselves or their future as a result they get use to being alone.
BM can’t emulate what they haven’t seen or experienced as children. Growing up with single parents would mean they are more the likely to repeat it until they become self aware
Tony, I went to Hawaii and one day went to a farmers market. The first stall I came to had a fruit from Jamaica called Otaheite apple, it looks like a red pear. I was excited to see it but instead of buying it I said to myself, if she has it for this much, there may be another vendor with better ones cheaper. So I went all through the market looking and did not see anymore. So, I made my way back to the first stall I came to and low and behold they were sold out. I was so mad at myself, I felt so stupid and greedy, I was beating myself up. That was 1982, I still remember the lesson learned. 😂
I only got thru 15 minutes and your analysis is way off base already. Your projecting female rationale onto men for some reason. Men aren't the ones who can't conform. Men, black men especially have survived by conforming at every turn. We're even taught that being a step dad is a virtue. Meanwhile women have no problem putting " no children " in their list of request. I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER ONCE IN 37 YEARS HEARD ANY MAN REFER TO HIMSELF AS A " FULL PACKAGE ". At best they'll call themselves "select ", or " alpha " or some 💩like that. And they do so by the WOMAN'S STANDARDS of " select " or " alpha ". So when he says he's " select " its because WOMEN WANT 6 FIGURES 6 PACK 6 FT TALL and he fits the bill… NOT BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT 💩MAKES HIM " alpha " or " select ". They're not making that standard up themselves. So even the " select / alpha " men are deferring to A WOMANS IDEA OF WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHED MAN IS. WOMEN NEVER DEFER TO MEN FOR THEIR OWN CONCEPT OF WOMANHOOD. THEY DEFER TO OTHER WOMEN. Men aren't going thru some bull💩check list like WOMEN DO. NO, WE DON'T HAVE TO BE WITH SOME FANTASY CHICK. More projecting see how so many WOMEN pack concerts to watch men they sexually fantasized about as teens and never got past the teenage phase sexually. Let a Keith Sweat concert come thru and watch everyone's MOMS AND WIFE RUSH TO GET TICKETS. Another concession men make. I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER HEARD A MAN SAY " I WANT IT ALL " MEN DON'T EVEN THINK LIKE THAT. More projecting. Black women are the most obese women on earth so if we were obsessed with physical beauty he would have died off centuries ago… Man your off base🤨 20:23 NO 💩YOU DIDN'T GET THE RANGE ROVER. YOUR A MAN. YOUR PRACTICAL . WOMEN CHOSE THAT RANGE ROVER OVER AND OVER AND OVER. IT HAD THE 3 6's.. 20:27 ONLY GOD LOVES " UNCONDITIONALLY " You obviously lost your mind….🤨
Because 50% of Marriages end and 80% of the time the women files the Divorce Papers. And Divorce is the #1 cause of the influx of Male Suicide. Mainly cuz the Man loses alot financially.
Tony you hit it on the head . If men would just look at women as not being perfect and they aren't either..just pick a woman geez.
One thing I have noticed is that women state they want the truth, but when they get it from a man, they actually argue it down or completely doubt the validity of what a man says! It’s the strangest phenomenon I’ve ever seen. Thank you Mr. Gaskins and God bless you and your family 💕!!
@ 1:45 😂😂😂😂
I am a woman and will be fair. Men aren't getting married because they are getting free milk left and right…women need to take responsibility for their actions…fornication isn't going to bring you Godly blessings like marriage.
You are such a blessing! I thank God for you and your wife and your ministry!
😒but it does go both ways….just kidding😂…..thanks for always coming on with great insight and information 🙏🏾👏🏾
You really do a great job of breaking it down. I’m 2,inches from the growth club, lol
Tony, you are right I’m used to being single, I like to have the money right out to buy the things I want. And so on, there are other intricate details I look for in a man that I’m not willing to look pass.
👂 the wisdom in this video 👏 👏 I haven't met the one yet, bt yet this video helps understand key points abt choosing and accepting, and yes we women are quicker to accept a mans stank, while they be picky…❤️💙💜💚💛🧡
Thank you, Tony. Great message.
I needed to hear this today – not just concerning my relationships but my career, where I'll relocate to – everything. Lord help me to get out of my own way, make sound decisions, take action, and trust you. Lord help me to be a praying woman who will keep things simple and be prayerful.
Wow! This video was very real and honest. Too many people being overly picky about the partner they want. For this reason I try to evaluate and ask myself am I putting more focus on my preferences rather than my standards. Standards over preferences.
And you have to be held ACCOUNTABLE!!
Princess Diana ain't cute. Lol….. But I hear you bro..
So tired of this topic. I am 58 yo, 5’10, 128lbs, former model, look 10 years younger than I am. Many of the men my age are overweight, hair loss, want sex(as if!!) and think they deserve beautiful women, lol. Bored w them all. I’m just making more money and enjoying my own stress free company.
Look at you 😊paying cash 💰 for a “new” vehicle ❤
This was a good explanation for us women who are learning the depths of men.
Tony your gift is truly a blessing as you keep it real. It's tight, but right.
Tony another great video🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 you keep hitting the nail on the head !!! I watched the video 3x's 😂. You are right, change is hard but it goes back to God and a person spiritual foundation; are we trusting God, are we walking in faith, are you in alignment with God or the world seeking the right qualities? If so, it should not be hard. Society has made relationships, dating, and marriage challenging from being uncompromising, unrealistic expectations of perfection to making butt and beauty king and lord, dating 10 people at one time is the best route. And "coaches" "relationship experts" and individuals using their platforms (not you) to tell folks the opposite of God and folks are listening to them. Many men are looking at the outside forming a decision and running with it without getting to know the women inside. Or willing to talk, pray, or faith things out. Society has so many conditioned at the first sign of a disagreement that person is not who God has for you so replace them expeditiously. The story of the airplane and flight attendant was 🎯. The story about the woman going to stage 6 and end up with nothing brought tears to my eyes because hearing it out loud is disgusting. I am single and waiting to be found. I am woman of God and educated– in progress to graduate with my master's degree in December. Honest, loyal, affectionate, considerate, and emotional available, intelligent, and appropriate. I work out and wellness minded. I work and love my job, tenured employee of 9 years. I'm in Marietta, Georgia and live a quiet life…I don't drink, smoke, or club. I know my worth, have Godly morals, values, and standards. This year I've decided to step out more and enjoy life with hopes to be found while doing so all while trusting God. I don't pick and choose with a false positive, expectations of perfection because I'm not perfect. Today society is so consumed with looks, status, likes, looks, and materialistic things that fade away or can change in one disaster, transaction, or unfortunate event.
Father God thank you for fresh patience and wisdom today. Thank you for fresh perspective and a childlike faith. Thank you for positioning me and placing me at the right place, right time, with the right people to be found. Thank you for placing me on your single son's mind, heart and in his plans. Reroute our thoughts, correct our sight, and guide our minds from seeking perfection and if at any time we get in our own way as you bring us together guide I'll steps and our stops. Give him the faith to know he will find me and me the patience I will be found. Let us not move out of desperation, frustration, temptation but keep our trust in you. In Jesus name, Amen ✝️🙏🏾
Growth REQUIRES you to be uncomfortable. And most of these single comfortable men are not growing whatsoever and it takes a woman (bless her heart) to put their passion and purpose into fruition. And that’s sad. They’re single because women can no longer afford to put them first. They need to wake up collectively because the work needs to be done within.
Love this message, thank you Tony. 🙏🏽
The title should be, 3 Reasons Black men Aren't Marrying,
“Here go a cookie”🤣🤣🤣 im weak
Very informative uncle Tony. Thank you always!
This is an amazing breakdown
They’re DL, broke, weak/effeminate, unwanted by women and/or fatherless. There I gave 5 reasons.
I’ll tell you why, you can give someone a house you don’t like at all without marrying them lol
Do ppl still care?
Thanks!
I pray billions here this before we miss out on our blessings. Thank you Tony for this. God bless you & your family. 🙏🏾
Thank you Tony for your teaching. These men comfortable being alone are not alone. Yes living in their own home, sexing various women, dating for any events they want; sports, opera, the met, holiday parties. This is closer to the truth…. But, me I’m focusing on mastering my God given calling! 🎉🎉❤️
Great message! I think if a man shows you he is content with being single and you desire to be married, then it's best to go on with your life and wait for God to send you your husband.
Most Women aren’t committed to Marriage like Men are…at drop of a hat Woman filing divorce
Haven't watched the video but from the title who really cares . I mean come on when have they really married anyone lol. Next topic!
Tony please make the dating app!!!!! This is something I'll be willing to pay top 💲 for. This is the void we need filled. Screened candidates (on both women and men, dating with coaching and process of holding people accountable to avoid ghosting without a legitimate explanation.
theres nothing marriageable, thats why you gotta pray to God
Most Of Them Are With Each Other.. 👀
You are right
Good word❤
God bless you❤
Men that are older at least over 30 years old are to comfortable being single. That is why men should be looking for a wife earlier on so he don't get comfortable. Sometime they don't have goals for themselves or their future as a result they get use to being alone.
If us women closed our legs the marriage rate would be through the roof. Sad but Very simple
BM can’t emulate what they haven’t seen or experienced as children. Growing up with single parents would mean they are more the likely to repeat it until they become self aware
I love love love your channel… So much practical advice… Thank you Tony …
Tony, I went to Hawaii and one day went to a farmers market. The first stall I came to had a fruit from Jamaica called Otaheite apple, it looks like a red pear. I was excited to see it but instead of buying it I said to myself, if she has it for this much, there may be another vendor with better ones cheaper. So I went all through the market looking
and did not see anymore. So, I made my way back to the first stall I came to and low and behold they were sold out. I was so mad at myself, I felt so stupid and greedy, I was beating myself up. That was 1982, I still remember the lesson learned. 😂
I only got thru 15 minutes and your analysis is way off base already. Your projecting female rationale onto men for some reason.
Men aren't the ones who can't conform.
Men, black men especially have survived by conforming at every turn. We're even taught that being a step dad is a virtue. Meanwhile women have no problem putting " no children " in their list of request.
I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER ONCE IN 37 YEARS HEARD ANY MAN REFER TO HIMSELF AS A " FULL PACKAGE ".
At best they'll call themselves "select ", or " alpha " or some 💩like that. And they do so by the WOMAN'S STANDARDS of " select " or " alpha ".
So when he says he's " select " its because WOMEN WANT 6 FIGURES 6 PACK 6 FT TALL and he fits the bill… NOT BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT 💩MAKES HIM " alpha " or " select ". They're not making that standard up themselves. So even the " select / alpha " men are deferring to A WOMANS IDEA OF WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHED MAN IS. WOMEN NEVER DEFER TO MEN FOR THEIR OWN CONCEPT OF WOMANHOOD. THEY DEFER TO OTHER WOMEN.
Men aren't going thru some bull💩check list like WOMEN DO.
NO, WE DON'T HAVE TO BE WITH SOME FANTASY CHICK.
More projecting see how so many WOMEN pack concerts to watch men they sexually fantasized about as teens and never got past the teenage phase sexually. Let a Keith Sweat concert come thru and watch everyone's MOMS AND WIFE RUSH TO GET TICKETS. Another concession men make.
I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER HEARD A MAN SAY " I WANT IT ALL "
MEN DON'T EVEN THINK LIKE THAT.
More projecting.
Black women are the most obese women on earth so if we were obsessed with physical beauty he would have died off centuries ago…
Man your off base🤨
20:23
NO 💩YOU DIDN'T GET THE RANGE ROVER. YOUR A MAN. YOUR PRACTICAL . WOMEN CHOSE THAT RANGE ROVER OVER AND OVER AND OVER. IT HAD THE 3 6's..
20:27
ONLY GOD LOVES " UNCONDITIONALLY "
You obviously lost your mind….🤨
Because 50% of Marriages end and 80% of the time the women files the Divorce Papers. And Divorce is the #1 cause of the influx of Male Suicide. Mainly cuz the Man loses alot financially.
This is amazing! Thank you🙏🏽